Have you ever contacted someone who broke up with you for any reason?

[Anonymous]

I usually try to keep my distance if someone communicated to me that they don’t want to meet anymore. Not willing to make myself vulnerable to any kind of rejection from the opposing party. Even if it has been some time e. g. months. However I have a friend who told me she ends up contacting them in 2-3 months if she’s not in a real relationship despite the chance of rejection. While I’m scared of this approach I kind of respect the courage. Would you say this attitude is being a loser or being brave? Just curious what people think about this

[Anemone978]

It's fine if you miss someone and the differences weren't that big a deal.. If you are just contacting them because you are lonely or want a booty call yes that is loser behavior.

[Asker]

Ahaha yeah I believe it’s def weird to randomly ask someone to hook up especially if they broke up with you and you haven’t spoken in months. But then again the person might still assume that even if you message them a bland “hi”

[Wise4myage]

Sure, I was hoping to hook up.

[Asker]

But I’m sure you would not open up the conversation just like that right? Because it looks kind of creepy if they are not interested

[Wise4myage]

Of course not, lol.