Need advice on how to stop thinking about ex?

[capri_queeen]

I was with this guy for 2 years and he treated me terrible. It’s been five months since I broke up with him. I deleted myself off of all my social media accounts and changed my phone number so he couldn’t contact me. Plus I didn’t want to keep checking his Facebook page. He never even made any attempt to come to my place. My neighbor says that He has drove by many times in the 1st and 2nd month of our break up. I’m not ready to date anyone because I’m still in the healing process. I been told he’s on dating sites now. Anyways I keep myself busy and I don’t have anymore tears to even cry anymore. I really don’t want to hear anything about this man. How do I completely stop thinking about him?

[HollyK21]

5 months apart is no time compared to the two years invested in that relationship. It’s going to take time to heal, move on, and stop thinking about him no matter what you do. The better route is to just work towards accepting that it’s over and making peace with the fact that maybe you two just aren’t made for each other and that’s ok. Things are hard right now but they will get easier with time.

[kylee2437]

You need to come to terms that it just wasn’t a good relationship and you deserve to be treated well. You taking him back , will not guarantee he will change, it will just be you accepting a shitty relationship again, but also you don’t need to be over it! Being with someone is a bond and once it is lost, it is okay to grieve the loss of someone. Take time for you! I just got out of an abusive relationship this year also and what has been really helping me, is I have been spending a lot of time with friends and trying new things! I’m going camping at a festival this weekend. Go explore new things!

[Guy13]

Throw yourself int Work, Hobby, Ana Activity. www.meetup.com was an effective tool for reintegration into a singled society. Good luck 🍀 ‼️

[Anonymous]

Find someone else. I know it is not the perfect solution, but it has always worked for me.

[Iron_Man]

It just takes a very long time

[In_Trance]

Meet someone else