If I was your girlfriend will you love to brake up with me?

Question

my boy friend broke up with me because I told him I won't have sex till I am married to him, what do you think about the situation, am I at fault or is he at faut? iphone

HippieVeganJewslim · Accepted Answer

Many faiths including mine, Islam, forbid extramarital sex. You look beautiful and I would rather comply your wishes than fulfil my sexual desire.

Googlemyahoo · Accepted Answer

So you’re a staff sergeant? Were you expecting him to propose marriage after giving that ultimatum?

ohsheeT · Answer

I respect that I mean that's your right as you to do anything like that that you want there's a reason behind it and he needs to respect that reason if he doesn't then he knows where the door is now I have a very good question or at least I think it's good and if you could answer it for me but be 100% honest if you can please

Okay so let's play pretend for a few minutes let's pretend that you and I are girlfriend boyfriend and you tell me this that you want to wait until marriage I say okay fine but I have needs and I would say can I ask you can we do something and I would ask you look at I'm going to want to touch you I'm going to want to hold you I'm going to want to make out with you I'm going to get turned on when this happens you're beautiful so what I've been want to ask you is let's say that we're making out we start foreplay and I would hope that you would trust me enough to say if we got naked the both of us got naked as we're making out that I could roll you over on top of me grab a hold of your hips and slide you forward and back in slow motion forward and back slowly just slow motion looking into each other's eyes just to feel that that love that emotion between us both would you allow a guy or me or that a guy remember we're just playing for 10 to have this moment with you because what my goal would be was I would want to give you I mean the best orgasms ever by doing this and the rule would be we could do anything everything but no penetration would you be capable of allowing not to happen

Pyrofox · Answer

Marriage is a lie especially if you live in the southern US. Most marriage courts down there just give the wife the win without even considering what she brings to the table. And by win she gets 80 to sometimes 90! Percent of the gross couples wealth. Leaving the guys with 10% well if you do the math and the gross wealth is only 100K usd... Thats about what 10K to at best 20K. You can't rent an apartment for a year or have enough to buy food. And if there's a child support to pay yeah no wonder so many guys out of wedlock choose to just end their lives rather than keep going. And whats sad is when it comes to choosing the easy way out most of society are such pricks they resort to calling the father the issue when like 66% of divorces aren't started by the father its the MOM/WIFE.

Makeushiver · Answer

I don't think anyone is necessarily at fault. It's a question of standards. I've seen your photos and can definitely understand his desire. There are plenty of ways to have sex that don't involve losing your physical virginity. Mutual oral sex has a long tradition of satisfying's lovers who don't want to have penetrative sex for any reason

TacticalLizard · Answer

So Your In the military aiding Killers but you consider yourself worthy of Heaven definitely Confusing
Course he broke up with you
Just Looking like that supporting Killers Makes you look guilty of lying about what you believe in.
Quit crying what’d you think was going happen that He was going to wait years To bang A Girl and I’m sure you’d be like you can’t watch porn or your looking at other girls naked photos
All while he’d be like The fuck bitch I Quit Fucking Girls for you and then you got the nerve to tell me I can’t Jerk my dick when you won’t even touch me and I respected it.
No dude Follows Christianity or Catholicism that bad you Will be alone forever get used to it or don’t do what you want.

Sandeeppingping · Answer

Ironically he'd be the same guy who'd tell you it's better for a woman to be a virgin and not give it up before marriage because that's cheap, fook him, personally I wouldn't if these are your values and I'm serious about you, also do you speak arabic? I saw that حب نفسك أولا tattoo

Be3Bee · Answer

I would say the fault it 80% him, 20% you. He is mostly at fault because he ended the relationship and you both are partially at fault because it seems like you both didn't discuss your goals/expectations you have for the relationship (things like whether you both align in the option on marriage, kids,...)

Anonymous · Answer

Both your faults. Take responsibility and learn from it. That's what I would do. What I mean is you and him should have known this from the jump... Before you both labeled each other, there should have been a clear understanding of what both want and whether or not one is willing to budge.

Don't EVER SAY it was NO ONES FAULT. Because you cannot grow that way. You have to find the lessons or you'll keep making the same mistakes wasting years.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I'd say neither of you are at fault. You wanted one thing and he wanted something else. Irreconcilable differences really. It's a compatibility issue. It's nobody's fault.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Both of your faults because how on earth do two people become girlfriend and boyfriend without knowing this already lmao.
Pro tip before getting with some ask them the important questions first, that's what dates are for or just ya know talking.

Agape93 · Answer

He is. He's not entitled to sex. If you don't want sex, then that's the end of the discussion.

Gent207-2 · Answer

You dodged a bullet - a man that can't respect a woman doesn't respect anyone except for himself. There were more red flags than this that you did not see. As time passes you'll see him for what he is, weak and cowardly

Vanidal · Answer

None is at fault. The relationship just not work out for him if you don't want to have sex, so he move away. This case: break up. Maybe you can bring up about that sex thing early for your next relationship. Just in case.

Cj_Shway · Answer

That's your decision, and him breaking up with you is his. but pretty much nobody is gonna be willing to wait. Sex is a vital part of a healthy and intimate relationship.

d3n0939 · Answer

If you had to post pics and ask this question, I don't think it is his fault. You are not wife material anyways

Sixgunsound · Answer

Nobody is at fault. He is not entitled to sex but you are not entitled to him either. You made an honest disclosure and he made a decision based on that condition.

HighValue · Answer

Would you offer to sign a prenuptial agreement?  That would make a huge difference to me because without that, I wouldn't get married.

Anonymous · Answer

No one is at fault. You both just want different things

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Neither side is at fault, you just wanted different things, it sucks but that's just life sometimes.

red324 · Answer

You might as well be friends if you aren't having sex.

macjets007 · Answer

No. Any girl whos beautiful, and I have a true loving connection with I can wait.

OlderThanILook · Answer

Why would it be anyone's fault? You want different things...

exitseven · Answer

I voted for B but it would depend if he knew he wasn't going to get any until marriage before he got involved with you.

jshm2 · Answer

To be fair you need to up your game, if that's the kind of guys you're dating.

DavidRaul · Answer

he's not for you if he can't respect your decisions

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Everyone has their own lifestyle and standards... Some are okay with it / like it and some are not...

joeldalton · Answer

You’re entitled to have your standards. I’m entitled to mine. If they’re not compatible, then the relationship is not going to work.

Dingsbums · Answer

Nobody’s fault. U just realized that u have different values and it’s not working out like that

Twalli · Answer

Neither of you are at fault. He, like me, requires sex before marriage. I would break up with you too. It's pointless to continue when we know it can't work out.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Technically, you are at fault lol. It's your requirement that caused the breakup.

ThebestIndian · Answer

Sex is amazing if it has mutual consent and it clearly says that you are not ready for sex and if he still wants it. He is free to leave and have it from someone else. It is good that you broke up with him. He sounds so toxic.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

You both were at fault when you two got together?

Cedman · Answer

No ones at fault you said you didn't want to have sex to marriage and he left. The relationship would have turned sour if you both stayed in it.

Anonymous · Answer

It's your priority it's your choice just remember that don't let any little puts talk you into it.

XhmadRooz · Answer

I would've loved kept and cared for you like a princess.

Noodle_fan · Answer

both of you want different things , so break up is good decision

Still-alive · Answer

Did he know that before getting into a relationship with you?

Heolurt · Answer

Neither are to blame, you both have your standards and boundaries and he ended it before it becoming a complete waste for either of you.

Anonymous · Answer

That depends on whether you've had sex before or not.

Randalama · Answer

It's completely your fault. You seem very narrow minded. I like your fatigues.

Luopio27 · Answer

Did you tell him about your sex after marriage values on the first, second or third date?

Guardian45 · Answer

Depends on if you both knew this when you started dating.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Let him go he did you a favor trust me your worth waiting for the right guy will know that

TroyDT · Answer

No one's fault. Just different priorities.

NathanDavis · Answer

good riddance... you will find better

TacosRAwesome · Answer

No one is at fault.

Andres77 · Answer

He’s an idiot.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Are you a virgin?

Anonymous · Answer

he's a jackass

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Nobody's fault. You both have different opinions

Wise4myage · Answer

Id love you!!!

FckY0u998 · Answer

how old is the guy?

maximumpower · Answer

Trolling for compliments...

alance99 · Answer

I would respect your thinking and i would wait

dolemite89 · Answer

as long as ur not puerto rican it’s ok

spartan55 · Answer

Are you really 31?

Massageman · Answer

Good for you!

jimmy2 · Answer

That's your choice

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