“Girls never break up without a backup.” True or false? Guys, your thoughts?

[Pinay_ako]

100% false.

I don’t break up because I have someone new… I breakup coz I’ve had enough.

What about you?

[Rockstarrrrr]

No lol... Most girls break up because they had enough or have been cheated on

[Pinay_ako]

Thank you!!!

[BIGDennis]

Depends on the gal, can not over generalize here.

[Finchie40]

Why you dump her ass first before she leaves you if she has a back up plan that back up plan is just using her for sex he isn’t going to commit to her after she leaves her husband or boyfriend , he will gladly fuck her because in his mind he dominated her but he will not commit to her for the long haul if he does he is one dumb mother fucker because she is going to do the same shit to him that she did to her ex , so when your girl stops having sex with you , treating you like shit , everything you do is not good enough for her , she excludes you from things , criticizes you and belittles you prioritizes her friends over you , , Kick her ass to the curb let that other guy have your sloppy seconds , and go find yourself a girl that wants to be by your side , Most girl’s are very selfish people that only really care about themselves , they always want opposite of what they already have , A girl that actually values you will make you her number 1 priority , if you are not her priority kick her ass to the curb

[USLegionary]

It's true. Women are monkey branchers. A girl will stay with a guy she doesn't love and may even hate until she finds another guy or while cheating with another guy up until he gives her a sign of some commitment. Then she will do damage control on the situation telling friends lies that you were abusive in some way, there was no communication, you guys were going nowhere, the relationship lost the spark, she only just met the guy, it was your fault she cheated playing the victim. Women will of course go a long with it because they would of have done the same so will simp guys. Women will never dump a guy before Thanksgiving, Christmas, valentines day even the the 4th of July unless they got a back up guy lined up so they won't be alone during the holidays and to take to their parents.

No animal more cold blooded or as ruthless than an ex woman especially an ex wife to get what she wants and what she thinks she's entitled. Even when a marriage and she ain't with that man no more not only will she take half of the assets in the marraige but will also look alimony even if she had her own career and will hold the majority of child custody for maximum amount of child support. After the relationship the ex wife still feels she's entitled to whatever her ex husband makes. The amount of men out there who probably being good partners thinking they coming home to a loving wife after a hard day's work only to find the locks changed and escorted off the property by police due restraining order on them for domestic abuse that never happened while some dude in wife beater vest he never saw before is living in his house rent free with his kids, watching his TV, drinking eating his food, his beer plowing his wife ever night. Nothing colder most divorces are instigated by women who lawyers help plan it out1-2 years in advance.

[Lucy68]

I left because I realized the relationship was toxic. I left cause I was tired of the abuse (mentally, physically, emotionally, verbally, and sexually). I left cause I was tired of being cheated on. I left because I got tired of crying every single night. I left because I got tired of staying up till 4am or 6 am waiting for them to get back home worried sick about them. I left because I was losing my mind and contemplating ending it. I left because I was done. I don't break up for the fun of it and because there's someone new, I left because I was tired mentally, physically, and emotionally. I wish I never wasted 5 years of my life now that will be forever my regret. And that's why I left and don't ever want to go back.

[DizzyDesii]

Its not like I just went looking for a backup before one of us broke up with the other... the backups just pop up just in time 🤷‍♀️Its a coincidence lol

Backups pop up like...

And I’m not the type to use someone as a rebound. I just move on easily 🤷‍♀️ if we’re breaking up, I was likely emotionally over you a couple weeks prior to it happening so like... I been moved on 🤣

[Part2603]

Now we're getting somewhere. Ok, so now you're telling me that women are sort of careful and not impulsive about initiating breakups? So women are emotional and impulsive about EVERYTHING else in their lives, but I'm supposed to believe when it comes to breakups, they're pensive and really let it stew around in their mind. Seriously?

[DizzyDesii]

@Part2603 I am one woman speaking for myself. Not women as a whole

[RangerBlue22]

Mostly true. About 80% of the girls who broke up with me had another guy a week later. I am quite certain they started talking to him BEFORE we broke up.

However classy women take time to mourn the break up. Recover and then move on.

[Pinay_ako]

When I broke up with all my exes, I didn’t date until I met someone who made me want to love again. No rebounds. Just enjoying my single life.

[RangerBlue22]

That’s why I didn’t say “all” women are like this. I know there are exceptions out there. But generalizations exist for a reason.

[RangerBlue22]

I had one incident happen years ago that really depressed me about all of this though.

[Pinay_ako]

Sorry to hear that. R you in a better place now from that relationship?

[RangerBlue22]

Yes and no. It motivated me to get my shit together with my career. I was more of a “Peter pan” at that time (i was chasing a serious hobby). That actually turned on but also caused problems later. Now I got a good steady paying job and I’m a homeowner.

But one the flip side it crushed me finding out she had cheated on me, covered it up and decided to treat me like I was less than human to make herself feel better.

[Pinay_ako]

Oh wow… but look at where you are now..

[RangerBlue22]

Well I charge rent instead of pay it now.

[RangerBlue22]

I know everybody has their tale of woe. Sob story. But what I through with that girl really destroyed something deep inside me. It was the true beginning of middle age (and not in a good way).

[Apulu_Imback]

I'm surprised by how many people agree with this. Maybe this is for most of the people (guys as well) because yeah we live in such world, genuine people are difficult to find. So it isn't a fact, it depends on the personality of the individual.

[qwert1234]

One of my ex told me, in several of our fights, that she can break up with me and simply get her other ex back easily.

Joke or not, it hurt and it made me love her less until we broke up.

[Pinay_ako]

Sorry about that. That’s hurtful

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. I totally believe this. Because I have seen it so many times. I have had several girls reach out to me saying they don't like their boyfriend and he's an asshole. I'm pretty sure they're trying to get me to fall in love with them and rescue them. I'm not interested in that, though. I feel sorry for them, but it's not my problem. I have no obligation to get involved in that.

[watercolor_lions]

I HAVE broken up without a back up.

Guy told me to get off antidepressants.

Off my antidepressants I realized how annoying he is was.

Dumped his ass.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

People generally don't break up, because they've "had enough", otherwise, you'd see noone together, ever

People break up, because they cheated

[Pinay_ako]

In my case, got cheated on and definitely I’ve had enough. I just don’t walk away!

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

You got cheated on. yes, but, you didn't just "get tired"

I'm glad you didn't just "walk away though"

That you can't make this question, valid

[Pinay_ako]

Actually I did walk away after confronting both of them. And I’ve had enough, that was the last straw

[bubblegunnn]

Nah not true.. i broke up w my ex cuz i dont love him as my boyfriend anymore, and i would more comfortable if we being friends without faking my feeling to him..

[GoopInMySoup]

I'd say most girls probably don't go out of their way to prepare/pursue a back-up. It's moreso that there's generally at least one male "friend" who's gonna see an opportunity (post break-up) and make a move while she's feeling down and looking for a distraction. That's just my take though. 🤷‍♂️

[NathanDavis]

I just never agree with incel statements... lol

I'm not one of them

[Havthrills]

It's kind of 50/50. It all depends on the person. Also the situation. If it was an ok relationship, then it's a huge possibility this is true. Shitty relationship, then she would just break up.

[Guy13]

True and/or dropped a potential because he would not man-up and assert himself into her sphere of influence…kiss etc

[Little_Bumblebee]

False.
My answer is the same as yours, @Pinay_ako
"I don’t break up because I have someone new… I breakup coz I’ve had enough."

[melanieeeB]

The same like you, I break up cause I had enough. I never had a back up and sadly saw that more with guys than with women.

[genericname85]

i would argue girls don't need a backup, cause they find new guys much more easily, cause the dating market is oversaturated with lonely desparate guys.

[USLegionary]

True but they monkey branching, they will see a guy behind your back up until the other guy is ready to get serious.

[nawtee_me]

I would rather try and work things out, but if comes to that point where enough is enough I am not waiting around to find someone new. And if I am in a relationship I don't neem someone else to hang around waiting to see what might happen.

[Zolly99999]

Unfortunately I have it too many times from both sexs.

[Pinay_ako]

What do you mean?

[Zolly99999]

People girls or guys will break up once the have a back up person to go to. 😳