My ex and I had an agreement to end our relationship if one of us wanted to be with someone else he still cheated why do guys do that?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

More than likely it’s cause he still wanted to be w you. I know that may sound hard to believe as a female seeing as how you don’t think like a man. Most times when a man cheats it’s usually about sex, a pump n dump, maybe a few more times but that’s about it. It really has nothing to do w him having feelings for her in a majority of cases. When women cheat I tend to think it’s worse as far as the relationship goes. I mean don’t get me wrong I’m not saying that a man who cheats isn’t wrong, it’s just his reason for cheating is different than a female’s in most cases. I feel like it’s worse when a girl does it because a majority of the time she has to be emotionally involved w the dude to want to do something like that. Men will usually just fuck a chick, no emotions attached then leave. W a girl chances are she has feelings for the person she’s cheating w so she’s pretty much almost checked out of the relationship. As much as I love my girl there’s a lot of women I would smash. But sexually it wouldn’t be the same w other women compared to how it is w my girl emotionally. Not that I have cheated on her, it’s just how it would go for me. This isn’t even a question of well do you love your girl. Because yes I do, we’ve been together for 15 years.

[Asker]

He cheated on me with his babymother

[Opinion Owner]

I see. So than I’m thinking he still has feelings for her. How did they separate? She left him or he left her? Or was it a mutual thing?

[Wise4myage]

My guess is he intended to cheat all along. Glad he’s an ex.