What do I do when my husband said he doesn’t like or love or want to be with me anymore?

[Anonymous]

Husband asked for a divorce but never filed. He has been giving me mixed feelings. One day he will say let’s try and make it work. The next he will say something else. He has been sleeping in another room for a month. Today when i asked him what his decision was he said divorce and nothing changed… he goes back and forth. Then said he didn’t like me or love me. And that he only said let’s work it out because he felt bad for me. And that he never wanted to even touch me and after a month of not sleeping with me he realized he was living a job and didn’t remember the last time he ACTUALLY wanted to touch me. We have a kid and have been together for 10 years and married for 5. This past month he has been out to the bars or club every weekend staying out till 3-4 am. I am beyond heartbroken. I also found out I was pregnant- 1 month pregnant and he told me to get rid of it cause he wanted no part in it. I’m in tears. I feel anxious. Sick. Hurt. Unheard. What do I do?

[Guy13]

I am not attorney do up to you…

Take it like an adult, react non-aggressively, listen to his itemized list of faults. Thank him. Leave the room. Keep to yourself. Give him space but begin hanging out with your support group…. invite them to home and don’t always be in the home.

If you own home 🏡 then lock changes may require a locksmith and police accompaniment. Have your Deed…possession is 9/10 of law.
Notate everything no matter how inconsequential it may seem.
See if friends know an attorney just in case and that could be 10,000 bill. Best situation is he vacated. If a lease then you can release him or keep him in it. Nonpayment will hit his Court record and credit too. If he does leave gets bills solely in your maiden name.
2 years for separate Credit Identity.

[SiberFox]

This is really difficult, you two made vows to each other, remind him of them, compromise on the issues and work with him to make things better.
I have a sneaking suspicion however that he's been corrupted and is slowly turning into a degenerate, I hope this isn't the case but we'll see.
Good luck, don't lose hope that things can be made right again, but don't delude yourself if things aren't working out. Move on and focus on yourself and what you need to do and accomplish.

[888theGreat]

how did you get knocked up if he is not touching you? Is it his?