We broke up 2 monts ago and since then we haven't talked much. But I miss him and he told me not to contact him anymore. I know he also missed me. Do you have any suggestions?
All you can do is let him know that when he is ready to talk to contact you. That you still have feelings and would like to explore the possibilities.
That is all you can do; you just need to wait and see. If he does not respond, then don't do anything else. He does and tells you not to contact him anymore, then tell him you won't, but that still does not change how you feel, and when he is ready to please call someday.
I mean all he really has to do is block you... but he has not done that has he?
But do not overreach or press any more than I have already stated.
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As difficult as it feels in the current moment I recommend pausing not reacting. Don’t contact him if that’s what he’s asked. If he still has feelings he will absolutely come back around. If he doesn’t reach out when you’re being silent he isn’t as much for you as he may have had you believing. I understand first hand how painful that is. But it’s also better to know now than exert any more of your time and energy on this relationship if that’s the case. Focus on you. Love on yourself. Treat yourself to a pedi, or new skin care, or get your hair done. Go spend time with friends and family to keep busy. I hope for the best for you whatever the outcome is.
Nothing you can do, what's done is done. That door to rhe relationship is now shut. The best thing you can do is try to move on, he kindly asked you not contact him, it's best to listen to his requests. You don't want it to become a situation where the authorities get involved cause you're over stepping boundaries. If he decides to to change his stance and contact you then it's fine. Just remember, there's a reason why the relationship ended.
I assume that you did not react from hurt and block him. If so, open everything up and hold tight. I am going to share with you"inside the guy's head stuff" If you are overbearing then you are going to prove his point. Overbearing texter with dissertation texts is the biggest ghost or give me distance or I already have a Mom offense out there. It is like being under surveillance and the emotional demand is a pain in the ass.
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@experience do you comprehend what is harassment? Do you comprehend what stalking is? Do you comprehend what criminal charges are?
If you answered yes to those questions then you got your answer. He DOES NOT miss you. If he did he'd have NEVER said DO NOT contact me.
If your mutual contacts say it then yea it's likely he does. But if its based off a gut feeling then sadly please do not pursue it further.
Going with it may create more issues that you cannot afford to have.
So please observe all situations and everything he said before doing anythingRespect his wishes and do not contact him. There are more chances of him missing you if you don't contact him, rather than if you do. Regardless of that, you should try to move on even though it aches.
Don't be delusional. He doesn't want to hear from you because he doesn't want to miss you. He doesn't love you anymore. I don't know if you're blowing up his phone or trying to kiss his ass, but show some self respect lady. Leave that man alone
You can't feel emotions for someone else on their behalf, leave him alone. If he does miss you but he can't man up to talk, you're better off with someone who cares.
It takes time to fall out of love. Keeping contact is selfish because it’s holding him back. He’s made his desires clear. You need to leave him alone
Don’t contact him anymore. He was clear in communicating that. So the least you can do is honour his wishes
Do what he asks so he does not hold on to some false hope that you will get back together. He is trying to move on. Let him and you do the same.
How can you be sure that he misses you if he's stated that he wants no contact.
You'd be better off moving on and not trying to assume others feelings.Why leave scratch marks on the guy? Just cut it off with him like he asked you to do.
Love never dies. Therefore this suggests it was something else...
maybe pay attention to him when he says do not contact me anymore.
I'm thinking that does not mean that he misses you.How do you know he misses you? Have your friends told you that? They could be lying, to make you feel better. I say move on.
Yes grow up and move on! he asked you to move on because he has. whats wrong with you women? respect his request
You can't just assume someone does something just because you do
If you think things can be better with another chance then take it. We live once so go for it.
Just so you know, this is EVERY stalkers mantra.
He said don't contact him anymore. Do you need a restraining order to emphasize that?
Listen to what he told you. Don't beg someone to be in your life.
Don't contact him. He made it clear what he wanted you have to move on.
I doubt that he misses you at all. It's time to move on.
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