What are some of your personal shallow/petty dealbreakers?

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— For starters, I can’t date a dude who doesn’t like to give/receive hickeys. He can go jump off the nearest cliff lol! Yea i’m still mad about those answers on my other post  😂 —If a dude is under 5’7 or over 6’3, the height difference doesn't work for me. Nope. 🥴 —If he has long hair, in the name of OT Genasis “You need to cut iiiit!” Or gtfo somewhere 💇✌️—If he’s a mama’s boy, his mom probably won’t like me. I don't know its like we fight over the son or something and that shit is annoying. I would never wish ill on someones mom. But if their mom is not in their life, it makes them hot enough for me to want to be their wife 🤷‍♀️ —If he got an indoor pet, I know one puss that will never get wet. 😺 —If he calls people “B’s” then he can't get with me. 🐶 —If he prefers girly girls, then I’ma need his hoeass to twirl tf on. 👯‍♀️—If he prefers a woman who doesn’t eat meat, then his meat will never get beat. 🍗 —If he got long nails, then his sex appeal don’t sell. 💅 —If he smokes, I don’t want him to die, but he can certainly go choke. #iCanGoAllDay #FeelFreeToList

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

I have no shallow or petty dealbreakers. We already know that finding your man is damn near impossible, even with the pretty flexible height requirements that like 96% of men fall in. Sorry, but I'll call a b*tch a "b*tch" (uncensored), I like feminine women who actually "shave & bathe," and one day, imma own a dog. So you would never like me, B! 😂

But since this is asked a lot on GAG, here's my list again.

1. Transgender (males.)
The biggest dealbreaker of all. I'm not gay, which means I'm not attracted to anyone who isn't a heterosexual monogamous female. Don't be male.

2. Feminist/woke (far-left.)
The biggest personality dealbreaker of all. No man-hating, bitter, negative, angry, complaining women should be tolerated.

3. Bisexual/queer (lesbians.)
Self explanatory: If she's queer, then she's a lesbian. If she's a lesbian, why on Earth would I want her? Lesbians are a giant turn-off to me. So, straight women or nothing at all.

4. Abusive in any way, physical or verbally.
This is a clear dealbreaker and one I won't tolerate whatsoever, not even red flags or warning signs of it will be tolerated.

5. Polyamorous/isn't single/the "open relationship" type (an adulterer; unfaithful.)
These are all basically the same thing: Being promiscuous. I don't want to have anything to do with fast and loose immature women like this who have no loyalty and can't be trusted in a relationship.

6. Promotes lewd content of herself online (including and especially OnlyFans.)
The same thing as the one above. These women are unfaithful, selfish, make poor life choices, and can’t ever be trusted.

7. Has “preferred pronouns,” or uses terms like “genderfluid,” “non-binary,” etc.
These people are mentally ill narcissists and psychopaths. I won’t be tolerating their nonsense.

What are some of your personal shallow/petty dealbreakers?

Rockstarrrrr · Accepted Answer

- she's one of those people who put ketchup or mayonnaise on everything..

- she wears crocs

- she's one of those girls who only watch horror movies and listen to lame songs and anything but mainstream music.. aka wacky...

- she has ugly hands / feet.. Hair on her arms /legs...

- she says " bro " and stuff like that...

- she's so close with her parents... especially her dad.. It's nice but cringe from a boyfriend's pov...

- she's one of those people who like their pet too much... also cringe...

- she's too active on social media... Likes to take pics and look happy rather than actually enjoy the moment... Very " trendy " and " popular "... Chasing clout...

- she thinks it's okay to talk to people I don't get along with... If I don't like them... You don't like them... So petty yet so important lol...

- doesn't get jealous or clingy at all... Remind me again.. Why are we together? Lol...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I was 15 and my mother asked me to bring to the new neighbour his post that had been delivered by mistake. So I went over and he was working out shirtless in his garage. He was 29 6fr4 pure sweat and muscles in front of me, I gulped and I swear my vsgina gulped too, I couldn't speak and just hadn't him his letters and ran. I'd never really had sexual feelings before but that's when the wet dreams started. I'd constantly be watching for him out of the windows or in our garden and when I saw him I got that aroused feeling. He is well educated, handsome snd makes good money. He's also very kind and funny but very masculine. I would later marry him. I was young and we had talked but he always treated me like a kid. So one night I decided to let him know I was intrested and that I was a woman and not the little girl people thought I was because I was so short. So as he went to bed one night I crept into my parents bedroom who were out, waved to him so he could see me and he waved back. I took off my dressing gown to reveal I was fully naked, turned around so he could see my ass as well and just looked at him and smiled shyly. I couldn't really see hi reaction to me because the lights were on I'm my parents bedroom and his lights were off but he didn't look away. I heard my parents come home so I turned off the bedroom lights put by dressing gown on and walked out of there waving and smiling. as I went. It worked, things had definitely changed between he and I, he no longer treated me like a little school girl but as a woman and I would often catch him checking me out. A year later we were married.

SaoirseS · Accepted Answer

I got married in April so my dating days are over. I didn't start dating until I was 19, and didn't really have a list of dealbreakers (petty or otherwise) figuring I'd know them when I see them. Here were some of the ones others might consider petty:

1. Tattoos and body piercings (except for earrings). I just don't like them. I never have. Even though I've become more tolerant and accepting of them, I still don't like them. Seeing tattoos on a guy was enough to make me decline being asked out.

2. Guys who refer to groups of people in offensive terms. For example, if a guy started referring collectively to women as bitches, whores, hoes, cunts, sluts, etc. that would be the beginning of the end.

3. The obsession with sex, and wanting to "get to it" after going out a few times.

4. Judgmental comments about my occupation or my family. I never felt a need to justify or explain much of anything to anyone.

5. Politics. I don't care about anyone's politics, and I'm not going to get into a discussion about mine. Take it to the voting booth and leave it there.

Fortunately most of the guys I went out with were good guys, even though relationships didn't develop from going out with them. It's usually the disaster dates that stand out lol.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I posted some weird deal breakers to another guy on this site who asked but it was a joke post, people sometimes don't know if I'm trying to be funny. My real deal breakers that might seem petty - I judge guys by their choice of words when they are in communication - I judge guys who are not ashamed to talk about their sexual history - I judge guys who are sarcastic or insulting or derogatory or cynical or hostile when they tell jokes - even if it is a joke about a celebrity or stranger.

Summeroflove · Answer

Telling someone to jump off a cliff is a bit too far…. Just because I’m not into someone doesn’t mean I hate them. They’re just not meant to be.

Having standards and preferences isn’t a bad thing. Everyone is different and just because someone isn’t into you doesn’t mean nobody is. Don’t be angry with someone for telling you the truth and not stringing you along.

I am not saying I don’t care about physical appearance. But for me what’s on the inside counts the most

AviatorTom · Answer

That's one heck of a list. Do you do an interview before the first date?

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

I stopped caring about height and stuff a while back after getting with my boyfriend. That 7 inch height difference was technically a deal breaker but the man still won me over. Main thing that kills my lady boner is hair. I HATE rat tails and mullets with a passion. They're not sexy. They will cause any moisture in my vajj to run away

SnowedIn · Answer

Being late. Not responding to text/email/letter/message/whatever. Not on a timeline, I'm not watching a clock, but just not responding. Doesn't say please and thank you. Doesn't like cats. Won't drink a soda or gets judgy about me drinking soda.

AimeeKyle · Answer

Being a smoker is definitely at the top of the list. Couldn’t do it.
Hickeys…. I could take them or leave them. If it was a deal breaker…. I could be into it 😁

Need to be well groomed down below or open to being well groomed if they aren’t when we meet. Really, well groomed in general.
Not sure I could be with a vegetarian long term, I am a meat eater.
The person cannot be a negative or complainer (need to be positive and upbeat).
Don’t need a micromanager type personality….

JDavid25 · Answer

"If he prefers a woman who doesn't eat meat, then his meat will never get beat"..

😂😂.. Geez.. But uh I'll say..

-A really small or flat booty..

-Obvious weave or wig wearing

-Acrylic nails that are too long.

-Wearing those ugly big eyelashes.

-Strong stinky breathe

Phoenix98 · Answer

I won’t date someone who’s overweight.

won't date anyone who’s a political extremist, feminist any of those types.

If your ones of those horoscopes women then stay away from me.

belly button piercings, tongue piercings really sort of weird body modification stuff like that is a no go.

Those are probably my most shallow ones

MysticDevice · Answer

Vegetarians. Don't care if she's a Victoria's Secret model, no vegetarians.

TallAnon · Answer

Being a mighty giant can be too much to handle for some 😉

My dealbreakers.. Racists, glasses, bad hygiene, loud, rude, actively attracting too much attention in public, being too flirty to other guys, not trying to meet in the middle, not being someone I'm physically attracted to, a pillow princess, constant bothering or checking where I am or what I'm doing.

I could go on, most of these are from experience 😅 In general, if she makes my life harder, I don't want her.

TopTier · Answer

I didn't notice you were rhyming until half way through. Nice

Pink2000 · Answer

Crooked teeth.  can’t dress.  doesn’t wear cologne  does at vote  totally against abortions  Calls women “bitches”  has no car has no money  under 5’5 doesn't shower daily  Picky eater

Anonymous · Answer

Ugly feet, ugly boney hands, nail biters, too many tattoo's or tats in tasteless places, too many piercings especially that nose shit. Smoking or vaping isn't cool with me either, and actually, sucking on a piece of plastic looks worse than on a cig lol. If your musical tastes begin and end with rap, we're done.

Texaswendy · Answer

If he wears skinny jeans, walk on home boy 🤷‍♀️😂

RavVid · Answer

If a girl uses 'like' three times or more in a sentence than it is not happening. Or makes a statement that ends with a rising inflection. Both will drive me bat shit after short acquaintance.

AdithyaR · Answer

I guess my petty one would be if they don't like Kpop or Anime. With friends I don't really care if they like it or not but I definitely need a partner who shares that with me.
Also can't date someone who's completely vegetarian or vegan.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

Lmao!! This was great! Your honesty and poetry was unparalleled. Also I honestly can’t think of anything petty dealbeakers…

TaureanBull81 · Answer

A woman constantly texting me each day wanting to know my whereabouts, what I'm up to before even meeting for the first time. Tad bit controlling don't you think lol 😳

Titanic1912 · Answer

I can’t date a woman who is a liberal, pro-choice, doesn’t want children, smokes or vapes, drinks frequently, and is not on the same page as me when it comes to Jesus.

Agape93 · Answer

If you think it's ok to get yourself off but not me too, it won't work out.

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