He wants a percentage of my stripping money?

[Ashtonnotreal]

My boyfriend don’t want to be with me if I strip unless I give him 50% of the money. So I told him he about to be single because you basically wanna be my pimp. I might as well get a regular job if I want my money managed and be told what to do. I should be able to keep my money. Am I wrong?

[Kaneki05]

Yeah that's pimping if he just starts taking it off of you.
However if you use it yourself towards household things and things you share and etc. That's fine and makes sense.

[Ashtonnotreal]

That’s the thing I would love to help out around the house but that was never mentioned. He just say he want half because me working at the club would embarrass him and money would make him feel better

[Kaneki05]

If you ask me that's just a dick move to take your earned money. Try and find someone comfortable with what you do also he should of that beforehand. If I had a girlfriend who was stripping you wouldn't see me complaining to them about needing to be paid. I might hope they'll buy some food or something to be nice for the sake of it but that's it.

[Kaneki05]

Thought of that*

[Ashtonnotreal]

I wasn’t stripping before he met me this is new. But he’s still here even when I say I’m not giving him half but I feel like if he has a problem with it I’ll leave but he don’t want me to

[Kaneki05]

Just gotta ultimatum it then. Giving him that choice either he deals with it or you leave.

[spartan55]

I can't believe you are even asking this. Yes, it's your money. Your boyfriend is a piece of shit. Boot his ass out.

[Ashtonnotreal]

Glad we think alike

[Guy13]

Pay half the bill is fair...

[msmissydc]

Are you living together? Does he want 50% of your money for himself or is he asking you to contribute 50% to common expenses? Is he ok with you strippingmto begin with even if no or mucn less money would be involved?

[Ashtonnotreal]

He asks for just 50% for himself. He says “if im gonna have my girl being a sex worker she might as well give me half so I can feel better” even though I don’t help with living expenses, he didn’t mention that. Even if he did I wouldn’t be asking you guys because even I would know that’s fair. But he never asks me to pay for things like that

[msmissydc]

Ok that is not ok. I would say asking you to participate in expenses is ok. Not beeing ok with you beeing a sex worker in a relationship is acceptable too for me. But yes what you describe seems more like he wants to play pimp.
Just as an add on: I am Not sure about your gender. 🙈 seems like a male account but the quote seems to lead otherwise. Or did he just say it as a joke to your stripping?

[Ashtonnotreal]

I’m a woman I made the account In the wrong gender by mistake but it’s not a joke ik he really likes me and I think the relationship will go to shit if I start stripping

[Ashtonnotreal]

Real slowly

[dannyisb67]

No no its simple dont gove him your momey its like pimpong or sth plus guys that ask for money are not upright there is sth off about them

[msc545]

you are not wrong. Lose this guy.

[In_Trance]

You're wrong

[Ashtonnotreal]

I would love for you to elaborate

[Ashtonnotreal]

On how I’m wrong

[In_Trance]

Do you not know what a pimp does?

[Ashtonnotreal]

Do you know what a non insecure masculine man does

[In_Trance]

Yes... they don't pimp because they can't handle it

[Ashtonnotreal]

Can’t handle what? Pimping? I can get money at the stripe club without him I didn’t get a man to give him money for what I’m doing with my body ( and I’m not even having sex ) if he don’t like it we can be friends or nothing at all