I’m so sorry to hear that. It’s never an easy thing when something like this happens especially when it’s w someone you are close to. In answer to your question, imagine had your sister (pretend if you don’t have one) came to you w this scenario. What would you tell her? As for what I think. I think you should let them both go. You can never trust him again. I’m not saying cheating is ok depending on who the other person is. I just think it’s far more worse having done it w your best friend. So that brings into question can you trust him around other friends if you chose to stay w him? That’ll always be on your mind. As for your so called best friend. Well obviously she showed you how good of a friend she was by doing what she did. She needs to go too. You trusted her I’m sure w a lot. This is betrayal on a whole different level that you she can’t take back. You can forgive, but part of forgiving in my opinion is pushing her out of your life. I guarantee you he will come crawling back, but you have to stick to your guns as they say. You’re really young. Hang in there. This isn’t your fault no matter what you may think or if he tries to put it on you. Trust me in 10 years from now you’ll wonder why the hell did I cry so much over some stupid asshole like that. I know because something similar happened to me when she got pregnant for another dude. I thought it was the end of the world. But 20 years later I thank her for what she did because of everything I did in my life. Everything I seen. Joining the military, seeing a lot of the world. At the time sure it’s hurt bad, but now it’s all a distant memory. Be strong. Cry if you need too but don’t cry forever as the world isn’t going to sit around waiting for you to stop.
Just because you love them is no guarantee that they will love you. Their actions speak for them.
I'm sorry that happened. What you do next will set the stage for the rest of your life. Obviously, though they might say they love you, they don't love you. They already hurt you once. Don't give them the opportunity to do it again. And don't be guilted into "forgiving then" (meaning that you won't hold them accountable). You can forgive them when you're ready, do it on your own time.
Move on with your life. They're anchors for you. I hope you find what you need.
Try to think about the future. Do you think you can trust him again after the fact? Or will you think he'll do it again? Can you live with that fear? Do you think he loves you? Do you think he won't do it again? Do you think he wasn't aware that if would leave you devastated when cheating with, out of all people, your childhood friend?
If that was me, I would throw them both away from my life. I don't collect trash.
They already show you, that you cannot trust either of them and they don't respect you. Don't let them walk all over you.
When people show you their true colors, believe them.
Opinion
18Opinion
Sorry about that. Break up with your boyfriend and your best friend. They’re bad people. I can’t even imagine how this must feel. Having two people you thought loved and care for you betray you.
They both need to be cut from your life. It hurts but you’ll be better without them
u You end your respective relationships with them and cut them out of your life. Take whatever time you need to grieve and to work through all that is going through your head and your heart.
Don't ask for or expect answers from either one of them. Chances are they won't be telling the truth. And even if they are, what reason do you have to believe them?
Be careful of having hotter female friends around your boyfriend.
I honestly cheated on one chic who had a hotter friend too. I was sorta dating this chic about 7 years ago, she had an average face, small t! ts, skinny, smoker and single mom. Her friend was hotter, had bigger t! ts, etc.. I hooked up with her friend many times and she never found out.
Tough one. I'd dump them both, but that is me. You sound nicer than I am, so you might want to try to work it out.
You love him? Why? He doesn't love you, and neither does your friend. It sounds like it's time to meet some new people.
A blowjob a day keeps side chicks away, remember that.
That's some BFF you have there. You can usually trust your BFF. She betrayed you, they both did. You should kick them both to the curb and hope they fall in the storm drain. Be careful of who you trust. They may just be fake.
Leave, he is clearly not loving you the same way and definitely isn't respecting you at all
Well they both don't deserve you. Its better to stay away from them. She was never your best friend.
Double betrayal. I'm sorry to hear that. It happens unfortunately. You see sometimes you have only yourself to carry on with life. They have shown their true sides. Your best bet is to consider them hostile and do your thing.
If it was me both of these people would be dead to me.
I cheated on my girlfriend with her bestie. After she discovered, she went crazy for one month. They're still besties, and we're still together.
they both betrayed you. best you just give them your blessing.
You must end it with both
Cuz both cheated on u!!
Leave, move on and never look back.
Take control of your life and leave. They betrayed you in the most terrible way.
Easy, dump them both. You will get over it and find a better best friend and boyfriend.
how did he cheat?
😆😆😆
You can also add your opinion below!
