My boyfriend cheated on me with one of my best friends and what should I do?

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My boyfriend had some sex party I guess with his friends and one of my good girl friends. Her boyfriend had set it up and apparently my boyfriend was one of the guys that had sex with her. I told my boyfriend that I want to break up and now he’s like okay with that.
also how can I look at my friend the same way after she did that to me. Her boyfriend has like hit in me at some parties too. I’m helpless.

NYlatefun · Accepted Answer

So sorry to hear! They’re the ones that should be ashamed of looking you in the eyes! Have sex with another guy and send your ex a pic he’ll die lol just kidding of course

Guy__ · Accepted Answer

Obviously they're all completely different from you. You deserve a very good boyfriend.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Your boyfriend having a sex party is enough reason to leave him, not work it out! And with one of your (ex) best friends! Can't get much lower than that!

Losalt · Answer

I know that you're hurt.
And his reaction isn't promising.
But I think this comes down to different ideas about what is or isn't cheating and different expectations from the relationship.

Can you please contact me in a private message as I don't feel like the vanillas are going to really get what I'd like to convey to you, so talking about this in private might be preferable.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

Leave. Simple as that.

ohshee · Answer

Well I can't tell you what to do you're the only person that can do that but if it's turned around and my girlfriend did that to me and I told her I wanted to break up and she said fine I couldn't wait that at fast enough for hurt walk out that door

xHoneyxBeex · Answer

You made the right decision to break up with him. If he's not bothered by the break up, that just further affirms that you did the right thing. Trust me, there are MUCH better guys out there. I would recommend dropping the "friend" too.

rebeliouse · Answer

@chiarac2003 why did you not go to sex party and have sex with your boyfriend mate? you could get a good thing going ask your boyfriend to invite his mate and girlfriend round then you all can have fun and fuck his mate more than your boyfriend ;)

Anonymous · Answer

You need to find new people unless you like that trashy lifestyle. You break up when you're no longer attracted. You cheat when you hate them. If people also know you would get with a cheater then it might break your chances of getting married in the future unless you like the sharing swinger lifestyle. Get checked for sex transmitted viruses too

clemdenim · Answer

If he cheated, he let you know he was not the guy, thank him and move on

snoopyforareason · Answer

Worst feeling! Your heart is broke and I have some glue..
"The relationships were wounded for life long and time was upset with me... why is it that my fingers have become ice cold after writing your name"

Paulalove98 · Answer

None of those people are worth your time or energy.

Meadow4272 · Answer

I would leave him and then do what you want, don't let him have any control!

Paul09 · Answer

Not for you. Just leave. No point in trying to find a reason to stay. All seem like selfish idiots. Welcome to planet Earth.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Your not helpless dump him and that friend and move on you don't need people like that in your life

athlete_7 · Answer

Cut that person outta ur life. He just there for body . Plus will cheat long lasting peeps dont look for that

Beerluvr · Answer

Time for new friends. They are not worth your time.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Dump him simple if go to sex party and single cool or when have girlfriend bring her to if both want play it's all cool if not it's cheating

Wise4myage · Answer

Get rid of both of them. How could you ever trust them again?

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Wow that’s horrible for him to do that. Would leave them all. How did you find out?

Anonymous · Answer

you need to get new friends your current ones are all trash

Anonymous · Answer

they are not your friends stay away from them  go talk with Christ

Anonymous · Answer

Cheat on boyfriend with his sister, then get with your friends boyfriend, or father if she is single.

Zygum · Answer

You boyfriend do not like you, he want your best friend, so you let them enjoy, you get other boyfriend

lastepoch · Answer

Most guys are dogs, seen it all my life, hope you find love and light, be strong.

Anonymous · Answer

I assume he was the one who hit on you and asked you out

NathanDavis · Answer

just break up with all of them...

jjj101010 · Answer

Maybe she thought u were ok with it and that is why he was there?

BigBull91 · Answer

Cheat on him an come fuck me. I’ll give you a pussy full of cum

casual_guy31 · Answer

take a coke and chill chill just chill!

Passing_by · Answer

Ditch them both. They're not worth it... at all.

Anonymous · Answer

Have sex with all of his friends

dougeats · Answer

Cheat back then tell him

SignedAutographs · Answer

He made a choice, and so did you

Debbie14217 · Answer

Stop being her friend and break up with him

Iron_Man · Answer

Leave

Zlantur2 · Answer

Fuck her boyfriend too and never talk to her.

Anonymous · Answer

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