My boyfriend cheated on me with one of my best friends and what should I do?

[Chiarac2003]

My boyfriend had some sex party I guess with his friends and one of my good girl friends. Her boyfriend had set it up and apparently my boyfriend was one of the guys that had sex with her. I told my boyfriend that I want to break up and now he’s like okay with that.
also how can I look at my friend the same way after she did that to me. Her boyfriend has like hit in me at some parties too. I’m helpless.

[NYlatefun]

So sorry to hear! They’re the ones that should be ashamed of looking you in the eyes! Have sex with another guy and send your ex a pic he’ll die lol just kidding of course

[Chiarac2003]

Thnx…. Working it out with my boyfriend.

[NYlatefun]

Good for you! if you do get back together make sure you really forgive him, otherwise, as hard as it sounds, it’s better to break up.

[Guy__]

Obviously they're all completely different from you. You deserve a very good boyfriend.

[Chiarac2003]

Aww ur sweet…. he really is tho

[Guy__]

That's great if you're forgiving, but what happened could've been perceived much worse.

[Chiarac2003]

It was the worst but I do luv him.

[Red_Arrow]

Your boyfriend having a sex party is enough reason to leave him, not work it out! And with one of your (ex) best friends! Can't get much lower than that!

[Chiarac2003]

He didn’t have it. He went obviously

[Red_Arrow]

You said he had it. "My boyfriend had some sex party'

[Chiarac2003]

Sorry… I corrected myself… sorry.

[Losalt]

I know that you're hurt.
And his reaction isn't promising.
But I think this comes down to different ideas about what is or isn't cheating and different expectations from the relationship.

Can you please contact me in a private message as I don't feel like the vanillas are going to really get what I'd like to convey to you, so talking about this in private might be preferable.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Leave. Simple as that.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

And don’t be friends with that girl.

It hurts to just dump them both, but it’s best for all of you and you should not enable the behaviors by continuing to be with them.

[Chiarac2003]

Ty hun

[Mikeybear]

@WhatTheHeckkkk @Chiarac2003 @Paulalove98 leave them both.

[Chiarac2003]

@Mikeybear thnx…hun😇

[ohshee]

Well I can't tell you what to do you're the only person that can do that but if it's turned around and my girlfriend did that to me and I told her I wanted to break up and she said fine I couldn't wait that at fast enough for hurt walk out that door

[Chiarac2003]

Ty… working it out.

[xHoneyxBeex]

You made the right decision to break up with him. If he's not bothered by the break up, that just further affirms that you did the right thing. Trust me, there are MUCH better guys out there. I would recommend dropping the "friend" too.

[rebeliouse]

@Chiarac2003
why did you not go to sex party and have sex with your boyfriend mate?

you could get a good thing going ask your boyfriend to invite his mate and girlfriend round then you all can have fun and fuck his mate more than your boyfriend ;)

[Anonymous]

You need to find new people unless you like that trashy lifestyle. You break up when you're no longer attracted. You cheat when you hate them. If people also know you would get with a cheater then it might break your chances of getting married in the future unless you like the sharing swinger lifestyle. Get checked for sex transmitted viruses too

[Chiarac2003]

I understand what ur saying….. but I do love him n he n I r working it out.

[clemdenim]

If he cheated, he let you know he was not the guy, thank him and move on

[Chiarac2003]

But we’re working it out.

[clemdenim]

Ok, great

[snoopyforareason]

Worst feeling! Your heart is broke and I have some glue..
"The relationships were wounded for life long and time was upset with me... why is it that my fingers have become ice cold after writing your name"

[Paulalove98]

None of those people are worth your time or energy.

[Meadow4272]

I would leave him and then do what you want, don't let him have any control!

[Chiarac2003]

Thnx… but we’ve worked it out.

[Meadow4272]

ok well it's really just your call - don't let him control you though

[Chiarac2003]

I have my trust in him to be honest with me. But thnk u 🎀💕

[Paul09]

Not for you. Just leave. No point in trying to find a reason to stay. All seem like selfish idiots. Welcome to planet Earth.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your not helpless dump him and that friend and move on you don't need people like that in your life

[athlete_7]

Cut that person outta ur life. He just there for body . Plus will cheat long lasting peeps dont look for that

[Beerluvr]

Time for new friends. They are not worth your time.

[Luckycharms12]

Dump him simple if go to sex party and single cool or when have girlfriend bring her to if both want play it's all cool if not it's cheating

[Wise4myage]

Get rid of both of them. How could you ever trust them again?

[BarryLiverstone]

Wow that’s horrible for him to do that. Would leave them all. How did you find out?

[Anonymous]

they are not your friends

stay away from them

go talk with Christ

[Zygum]

You boyfriend do not like you, he want your best friend, so you let them enjoy, you get other boyfriend