New Year, New Fear with Talking Again with an Ex you still Feel Resentment for?

[Paris13]

**Is it a Potential way to Reunite and Rekindle a New Beginning? Thank You for your own Opinions on this. xx

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****Happy New Year to Everyone!!! xxoo

[OlderAndWiser]

Is it possible to rekindle? Yes, but that is not the right question.

It is likely that you can reunite, resolve your differences, and live happily ever after? NO.

Paris, you tried and it didn't work. The reason it didn't work isn't because of something else; it didn't work because you two were not a good fit for each other. You can temporarily forget that and reunite, have hot makeup sex, and a few good dates, but pretty soon you will rediscover the same conflict that you had the first time around. . . and the result will be the same. . . and this time, you will be angry at yourself for falling into that trap and wastng even more time on something that is not going anywhere.

Am I missing somthing here?

[Paris13]

no, Not missing much, Sir. But I do not Mind being a friend with no real strings. That is what I Wish to Work on but I believe he still Wants me as his "Wife," He is wearing my Ring yet and Still has ALL of my Things in his room. I will Go Slow. xx

[OlderAndWiser]

If you try to remain friends, does that mean you will tell him when you start dating someone else, someone who lives near you and who you can see on a regular basis? Will you tell him the first time that you spend the night with your new romantic partner? Will you want to hear about it when he starts banging some new girl? Are you okay knowing that he wants to be "friends" only because he is desperately hoping for you to change your mind and effect a reconciliation?

[Paris13]

None of it. I am Not sure What and Why I want him in my Life but Do NOT want to be His Wife. lolxxoo

[Guy13]

Would rekindling in a dynamic, where the heart and mind are not in agreement, be a new beginning at all?

It sounds like a Situationship where both people’s Present is actually the same Past…that they are still in the same same rabbit hole.

Neither has yet to break through past to know present…never seen daylight yet.

[DizzyDesii]

I’m pretty rude to exes. Flattered but i shut the shit down quickly. I probably do get their hopes up by joining them in a moment of reminiscing. But the past heartbreak still haunts my mind and disgusts me so much that they’d never get another chance

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[Jennz6]

Hi Paris, No, I’m not going back to my ex

[Paris13]

Hi, Jenn, Ali and I are Being Civil but I am Holding off on Phone Calls right Now because I am Scared if I Hear his Voice, I will Go back to Him. I just Want us to Be friends. We are Texting for Now but I still Hold Resentment. xx

[Jennz6]

@Paris13 Good luck with that Paris 🥰

[Paris13]

Thanks, Jenn, I am Not Sure WHY Fate is Doing this. lolxxoo

[Jennz6]

You’re going to be ok

[Paris13]

I know. I admit I really Miss him but it was My Decision only... xx

[Jennz6]

Paris, thank you for selecting me for this MHO xx kisses and hugs

[Summeroflove]

Not if you have negative emotions to him. Probably not healthy

[horatiohornblower]

They are the same person. The calendar doesn’t change that.

Write down why you broke up with them. Whenever they try to contact you, block them. Then read the reasons. If you’re thinking of calling then, read the reasons why you broke up. If you are reminiscing. Read the reasons.

[humanearth]

Yes, its possible, but it's just going to open up the old bullshit that caused people to break apart and the fighting will start over again.

Better off ending it for good or you'll end up opening up the past again.

You get what I am saying

[TrueConfection]

I'm not in that situation, but my daughter has an ex boyfriend that I hope she never gives another thought to. My heart would break if she started talking to him again.

[douride2]

In my opinion trying to get back with an ex is a waste of time. It brings back why you spit in the first place,

[SnowedIn]

I don't feel any resentment for any exes.

Still talking to some. Haven't yet talked with any this year.

[melanieeeB]

I'm not really for rekindling stuff... most of the time it's always a bad mistake

[tonamimargaux]

No not anymore. It’s been 7 years since we broke up so there’s no point and he’s married as well. God bless him and his family.

[lightbulb27]

Is fear of talking to an x you have resentment for a way to rekindle? don't understand.

[Anonymous]

I try to stay away from my ex because sure it was the best sex I ever had and I love his big dick but I was always miserable

[Bklynbadboy12]

I can tell by the way you said that you may not want him but you're going back for some more sex

[Opinion Owner]

@Bklynbadboy12 I never had. All I had was mind blowing sex and mental health issues

[exitseven]

This is why when it is over it is OVAH ovah.

[Justneedtokno]

Nope I’ve decided I’m not i delete number and it’s ok to start slow as long as you think you are heading in the path of growth

[RealMarek]

Exes are usually exes for good reason. I think it is important to scrutinize whether it is better to focus on trying to restore and repair the relationship or move on and subsequently look for someone who is more compatible.

[Tracker1958]

Your ex will father your kids. Dogs always return to its vomit. You will return to your ex to father your kids.

[Finchie40]

You should never take an ex back period if you truly loved each other then they wouldn’t of been your ex , You both can put band aids on things but those band aids won’t stay on forever

[Anonymous]

No. If you're out of my life and in my rear view mirror that's where you stay. There's a reason you're an EX. But I still wish you the best. 🙂

[msc545]

An exx is an ex for a reason - perhaps many reasons...

[Massageman]

Any of my ex-GFs I am still cordial with. (pardon the grammar)

[loveslongnails]

Not at all. All my ex's are gone from my radar.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope I'm definitely not going back when I'm done I'm done