Why would a man be surprised that his long-term girlfriend breaks up with him while he cheated during the relationship?

[Anonymous]

As if she never would find out? While he was quite obvious that he was always online on dating app.

I still don't get that there are man who are surprised when the girlfriend breaks up with him.
He wasn't hiding it..


How I know it? Because he wants a relationship with me. But before all that, he just told me what he did and he said he didn't get why she broke up with him.
I said nothing to him because I just don't get why he doesn't get it at all.

[AydenHazor]

Probably because he's gotten way with it before, most likely from using gaslighting and manipulation. Steer clear of him as he obviously has an overinflated, potentially narcissistic, cute of himself and you know he thinks there is nothing wrong with him cheating on his partner

[Asker]

Thanks for the heads up. Never thought about it that way.

[Summeroflove]

Probably because he’s shocked because he didn’t think he would get caught. That’s shitty and wrong

[kylee2437]

Some people think they will have their cake and eat it too because they think they are just that good of a partner to the point where they can have it all.

[Anonymous]

He was in denial?

[Asker]

Would explained it yeah