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Is it best to stay single if you're broken inside and you know you'll never heal? (Page 2)
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I’m sure you are going to find happiness some days you have to be patient and you are still young so it’s ok you spend your time enjoying your life for now..
Don’t worry too much overthinking is useless because no one knows what tomorrow will bring you. Stay healthy and feel free happy that you live safely. Everything will go into it’s places soon. You will be fine
Yeah that would be the easiest thing to do. The 2nd easiest thing to do would be to accept the idea that everything will work out and you will have a guy just right for you come into your life at some point. Both ideas require faith... But whatever you choose you must be all in because that is what makes it peaceful.
You can heal, it will take time and intentional effort, but it is worth it to love yourself and you are worthy of being loved by others too. That love did not need to be romantic in nature either, build string loving friendships that lift you up and care for you and let yourself come to love yourself again
If your mindset is:
* "I'm FUBAR" (fucked up beyond all repair)
* Nothing can fix me
* Nothing can heal me
... then yes, don't inflict your misery on anybody else. OR,
You can refuse to give in to whatever tragedy beset you and figure out why you're actually here, and what you need to do, and are capable of doing. The choice is yours.
How broken are you? I consider myself broken, so I started gathering pieces together, to be honest, I don't know what I am doing.
I just think this, I may finally find one, or may be I will end up in a pretend relationships, or die alone. But I won't stop trying.
Everyone can be healed, up to a point, it just takes courage. Sounds easy but facing your demons head to head is no small task but everyone is capable. It just takes every ounce of courage to face the pain and seek help and a better life.
To be honest it pisses me off when people say I'll never... this or that...
It means you gave up. The only person who can fix you is you.
It’s not possible to never heal. Humans always forget and are programmed to keep going forward. It’s the same for everybody. No matter how hurt you are, you might never trust the same again, or feel in love, but you will still need and look for someone.
That’s a very “Woe is me” outlook that I can’t get on board with. You probably should take time to get yourself in order tho before going into a relationship that’s just good sense. Step one is to stop looking at yourself less as a beaten down war crime victim or more like a fighter after a bad match. Recover and keep going.
i relate. i'm also so so broken. i wish i stayed single but now i'm scared to break up with my boyfriend because i don't want to break his heart. i think you should stay single and try to heal with friends or just think about things first-
Not being able to heal is a lie created by the devil, you will heal, we were created to heal, doesn't matter if the pain is physical or emotional, you'll heal with time, whatever it is.
If one chooses not to, or uses the wrong means, they may never heal.
They will heal, because the human brain adjusts to things
Once you programmed yourself to be a certain way, it is the path of least resistance to keep reinforcing these patterns whether they're good or bad. One must break the patterns and build better ones.
you need to be happy with yourself first.
being with someone may he a bit, but it won't really fix what is wrong inside.
once you are happy with yourself then you can really be happy with someone else.
Oh damn I feel the same way.
I can understand how you feel cause I decided not to burden anyone else with myself either.
Although i will warn you, it's a lonely life. If you do not like the loneliness, get help and try to heal. You can heal if you choose to accept the path to healing.
I was pretty broken inside and somehow having a loving relationship had helped me heal, I won't lie it was not a linear process.
Don't be a drama goblin. Get yourself some professional help if you have mental conditions.
Other than that, take a vacation and sort yourself out.
the woman i love kept calling herself broken numerous times but i never saw her as broken i saw her as a fighter a warrior someone people can look up to and admire someone who's confident and not afraid to speak out and stand up against the injustices of our world. i been in love with her for 5 1/3 years even though we're not on speaking terms she's still the love of my life and always will be.
Yes! Kind of... therapy won't help but its necessary..
At the end it all comes down to remembering you in your past and to just Let go so you could Move on.
I have been rejected so many times that I have created a barricade. Not letting any girl get close to my feelings.
I dont know what more to say.
It used to help me to fuck girls here and there that didn't want anything serious... Now I'm not so sure... I'd say stay single but work on yourself in other areas, gym, work, hobbies... Then when you are feeling better date again.
Yes, sometimes all a person needs is to get away and live his own life.
I left the idea of a relationship 7 years ago, It’s not for me.
I think I’m depressed but I’m not sure.
You can be healed you just have to want it... go get therapy, go get on pills if needed, focus on yourself, be selfish.. life gets better when you move on from all your trauma...