A while ago I lost my boyfriend. What happened was we got in a fight and after that fight I perceived him giving me the cold shoulder (I don’t know if he really gave me the cold shoulder or if that was just my perception). Because I felt like he was giving me the cold should I felt hurt and I ask for some time alone.
After that he seemed a lot colder and meaner. And he broke up with me. Now he treats me like sh*t where as before he was really loving and affectionate. It’s like a total personality change. I feel like it was caused by me asking for time alone and I feel like I really hurt him or made him angry. He’s not the same anymore and I really miss him.
I wish I could make things right but I feel like he won’t listen to me now. He’s really cold, dismissive and angry. I wonder if I over reacted by acting for space?
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Yeah, it is over. You made the wrong power move with the get upset and breakup routine. I would be done with you. Done ✅
Ok :(
Is there I way I can I f*ck things up? I really messed up
I wish I could unf*ck up.
Not necessarily over react but wrong move. It's done. You gotta move on now.