What are some ways to get over a break up?

[Anonymous]

I know some will say it’s different for everyone but I’m still not fully over it and it’s been a few months. Like I’m just recently getting better like I’m starting to gain some self respect again and believe in myself since back when the break up was more recent I’d literally ask for advice for everything that happened like big thing or small and now I trust myself to get through stuff. But I still miss her a little bit but only the part that she understood me but everything else I don’t miss.

[Guy13]

Getting over a break-up is definitely a to do thing. Firstly, one has to grieve and this process is rarely a straight line. Secondly, one has to keep one's mind and body positively filled. Friends and sports, hobbies, and social at meetup served me very well.

Hibernating in shame and guilt is not the way nor is taking your anger etc out on every other woman in the world. Composure is King.

[Anonymous]

I know it probably feels like it’s been an eternity when you’re trying to get over a bad breakup, but a few months is no time. If you really loved the girl or at least put a lot into the relationship then it will take a while to be in a better place. Just keep doing the work to heal in whatever way is productive for you, whether it’s getting a new hobby or hanging out with friends, being super busy or even writing your thoughts out in a journal. Don’t be hard on yourself when you have weak moments and keep moving forward. This will all be behind you before you know it.

[Asker]

Ok thank you. Yeah I hear a lot of people get over a girl/guy within a few weeks and me still wanting her back after 5 months basically is frustrating. But I did put a lot of time, thought and was emotionally invested in it since I’d talk her through all her troubles and stuff that got her down. But I knew I wasn’t good for her and if we stayed together it’d hurt her as well me too so I had to cut off things. But I’ve been trying to hobbies and reunited with some old high school friends so the past week has been really good and is getting better

[In_Trance]

start bangin someone else