Is it normal to forget someone in such a short period of time? How can he forget me so easily? I couldn't do the same...
It's understandable to feel hurt and confused when someone you were in a relationship with moves on quickly. However, everyone processes and copes with breakups differently, and it's important to remember that your ex-partner's behavior is not necessarily a reflection of your worth or value as a person.
While it may seem like your ex has moved on quickly, it's important to keep in mind that you don't know the full extent of their emotional state or their new relationship. It's possible that they are still processing the end of your relationship, or that their new relationship is not as strong as it may appear on the surface.
It's also important to prioritize your own healing and growth during this time. Give yourself time and space to process your emotions, and try not to compare your healing process to your ex's. Remember that healing from a breakup is a unique and personal journey, and that it's important to prioritize self-care and self-compassion during this time.
If you're struggling to move on from your previous relationship, it may be helpful to seek the support of a therapist or counselor, who can provide guidance and resources for healing and growth.
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Could of been premeditated, could of had outside influences tell him what is and isn’t acceptable as they’re only hearing his side or what he wants them to hear to gain the self validation of what he has done is right could be a number of things and men and women both do it, best to just chalk it up as a loss and do your best to move on. You may be stuck on him for a while but after you’ve been through the motions in your head you’ll be okay again. So in short it’s not your fault it could be down to many factors out of your control and you should try to move on. I used to be a bit of a hypocrite with this advice but now enough time has passed that I’m actually able to take it. Honestly it’s liberating when you finally move forward and leave these unpleasantries behind but it takes a different amount of time for everyone and it can be sped up or slowed down by certain influences and experiences so seek good energy. I wish you the best of luck
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He’d either mentally broken up with you a while before the break up, and therefore had no issues moving on, OR this new relationship is a rebound relationship. Maybe he hopes to use someone else to help him get over you.
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1. People move on at different paces so it's possible he could have.
2. She maybe his rebound, the person he's with to forget about his previous relationship.
3. This may be hard to hear but there's a chance he may have already been mentally detached from you long before the actual breakup.When opportunity knocks? He may not have even been looking, but if someone comes along that he through could be the one, he may have had to take that chance.
Not saying it doesn't appear callous on his part.
A 1.5 year relationship is not that long... Like it's just between that point where it's serious but not a stable relationship yet.
So I say yes, it's normal.That’s totally normal when someone has moved on long before you broke up. And some people just handle things differently, it’s been a year and a half since my last ex and probably still not totally over her
Some people move on quicker than others. Could just be a rebound or something more. The most important thing is to accept it's over and try not to have it live rent free in your head.
You must have been so terrible that he couldn't wait to find someone else.
It means he never really loved you , he loved himself more , you were just a convenience to him
2 year relationship in your late 40s isn't long. Also guys will get over things very quickly, but it usually resurfaces later on.
He was probably checked out long before the break up happened.
Some people can't stand being alone. The go out with anyone at that point. Or she's a rebound girl, or he's just a pure ass. Bit obviously the relationship meant more to you.
There are a variety of answers for this one bit there are two that I think are most likely. It may have already been planed or perhaps, he hasn't forgotten about and is hoping that being with someone else can help him get over you.
Different people recover at different rates. I can adore someone but if she wants out, I move on immediately.
It is pretty stupid, t' stay faithful, t' somebody you're no longer with (!)
Bc, of your fake pride, you lost'm t' somebody else! (All He did was move on)It could just be a rebound relationship, or he just wants to get laid on a regular basis.
most likely trying to get a reaction from you
some people are just jerks
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