Why can’t I just forget him?

[Anonymous]

I have tried so hard to forget about him. I just can’t. I was going to finally tell him how I felt but I can’t find the courage. He has an on and off again girlfriend but I never really know when the right time is for me to say something. I’m just suffering. I can’t forget him. I have tried to move on and it just doesn’t work. I’ll probably always wonder what would’ve happened if I had told him. But I just can’t. I never know if it’s the right time. At this point I jsut want to let him go or something. I don’t know what to do at this point

[Anonymous]

I vote you tell him. I've never been a fan of wondering "what if". It can really go only one of two ways. Either he tells you he doesn't feel the same way, or he tells you he has feelings for you, too. If it's option 1, then knowing the truth will help you move on. And if it's option 2, then you get what you've been hoping for all along. Either way, even though option 1 would suck at first, it's a win-win. Rip off the band-aid and figure out what you're dealing with.

That's just me though. Life is too short to waste it missing chances.

[RoseareRed]

Just tell him. It’s scary, especially because you know you’re risking a friendship, but this is something you have to get off of your chest and you can’t live your life thinking what if. Gain some courage and tell him, if he doesn’t feel the same way then his loss.

[egykimo]

Let it go and have self appreciation fir yourself