I posted this a few days ago but a lot more has happened and I just don’t have anyone to turn too as I’m scared that the people around me will go and tell him and make the situation worse. I was seeing this guy for 4 months and he got me pregnant. I found out very late at like 10 weeks and now I’m 3 and a bit months pregnant and I’ve seen the scan and I’m so attached already.
I want this baby I am financially stable and I can do it alone. I noticed he started resenting me because of the baby, it was just random at first he was so happy happier than me then all of a sudden this resentment just happened. He started ignoring me, he’d be next to me speaking to other women he just started to hate me.
I told him I’m keeping the baby and he threatened to break into my home and that he’s gonna kill himself and blame it all on me and say I’m the reason he’s dead. He said if I don’t kill it then he will kill himself and everyone will know it was my fault or he will try and frame me.
He’s completely switched. He’s said it’s not up to me if I want the baby it’s up to him and that he’s gonna break down my gates and he said he will ‘do something’ is this enough to go to the police? I’m so torn because I care about him in some way and I know going to the police will ruin his life but I think it’s the only way to protect me and my baby?
It’s not even just about me anymore it’s about the baby. At the same time though I’m healing from this man and heartbroken. He keeps threatning me saying I never loved you it was a lie kill the baby. And I’ve already got a scan and I’m so attatched to this baby. What do I do? Am I crazy for keeping this child who I already care about? I can’t see myself getting rid of it but I’m scared of him. I’m scared he will kill himself because of me or break into my home. I already know I’ll be a single parent but all I care about right now is my baby. Do I block him and call the police?
