Why is he trying to make me feel bad when he’s the one who hurt is unborn child and me?

[Anonymous]

When I was five months, I’m now full term and I go in to be induced tomorrow, the father of my child physically attacked me. He choked me, threw me on the ground, strangled me to the point I almost blacked out and he could have killed me and his unborn son. I left him for good, blocked his number but he kept getting in touch from fake numbers and since he knows this is the month he’s due he texted me this. It’s like his attempt of making me feel bad for telling him I didn’t want him on the birth certificate and that I don’t want him to have his last name. Basically I don’t want him to be apart of his life because of what he did. Now I suppose he thinks leaving town is suppose to make me regret my decision and feel bad when he’s the one who caused any of this.

[Truth0225]

Sounds like a manipulative person and ur dodging a bullet with him leaving

[Asker]

I pretty much did and I’m grateful and yes he is very manipulative. He also told me “I bought all these things for a new born baby I’m never even gonna see or who’s life I’m never gonna be apart of. I just wasted my time and money.”
Each time he would text me from a fake text free number I would block it but before these messages he texted me again a few days prior and I responded with just a link to the baby registry at target. All you have to do is buy something off of it and send it to my house. There was no reason for him to go out and buy what he wanted to get him unless he just wanted a reason to see me to give me the things he bought when if he used the registry he never had to see me, the gifts would have just came through the mail. Also, it’s like he didn’t buy the gifts with the intentions of being a good dad because if he were doing it for that reason no matter if I’m allowing him to be in the child’s life or not, he would have never said it was a waste of time because in the end it is still his child regardless of the hurtful, terrible and shameful things he did.

[Truth0225]

Dude is a complete pussy. No man should view buying things for his child as a waste of money. It’s your child! You need to tell him to learn to be a real man. Or find someone who will be a real man and take care of you and the child. Dudes like that shouldn’t be multiplying

[Guy13]

Sounds horrible. Good luck in inducement.

[Anonymous]

Leave the bastard permanently you're better off