My boyfriend threw my phone at the window while he was driving because I was ignoring him, should I break up with him?

[Anonymous]

[Likes2drive]

Did he throw it at the window or out the window because one would damage the phone and one would be totally lost. Either way it sounds like he owes you a phone and an apology even though you may have been ignoring him so you guys need to talk.

[BryanMoore]

Well, this sounds like a big red flag, and pretty out of order. If this is an isolated incident, maybe try and have a conversation and talk about what happened, communicate how you feel about it. If that doesn't feel like a safe conversation, or this is not an isolated incident you deserve better honestly.

[BorrowedTime]

You should speak with him first, and you should let him know you didn't like that he had done that. I understand people can get overly angry when a loved one is ignoring them, but he still doesn't have the right to touch your belongings, especially if he doesn't have good intentions when doing so.

[MementoMori777]

I don't see a reason to be aggressive, mostly if he was the one that fucked up to piss you off in the first place

[Unit1]

That's the first course. So unless you want more of where that came from it would be safer to part ways. That's what i did with my "family".

[exitseven]

It was a little immature on his part but I can understand. I am not a big fan of cell phones and their effect on in person relationships.

[slatyb]

Yes, you should, immediately. Violence is never acceptable.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes. Not for being upset. That is understandable. Violently reacting, however, is unacceptable.

[Sparkie460]

This time it was your phone, what next. He has anger issues and he can't control himself.

[KrakenAttackin]

Sounds like the guy who was driving threw your real boyfriend out of the window.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, he sounds dangerous.

[Iron_Man]

No you should not

[In_Trance]

Yeah, tell him to get fucked

[boggboss]

Sure

[boggboss]

Thats with me assuming u had a conversation

[Asker]

We did have somewhat of a conversation, but he threw it in my direction. At my side of the window. If he wasn’t carful it could’ve hit me. And when I told him this he said if he wanted to he would’ve.

[Asker]

I don’t know if I’m just overthinking it

[boggboss]

If u was my friend or family member I would say to end things people lashing out when they can't get somthing they want is never a good thing and can be a precursor to physical abuse as it shows a lack of controlling one's anger or mental state

[boggboss]

For me the bigger issue isn't even him doing it but him saying if i wanted to hit u with the phone I would have is never a good sign

[Asker]

Yea that’s what I was thinking I just wanted to make sure that I wasn’t tryna make it bigger than it was thanks