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I live in North America and I came to Europe to visit a few countries, one of which my ex lives. I met him online which had later developed into a long distance relationship. I moved to a country in Europe for my university studies. We met in real life in Eurasia and also in the country I used to study. We dated for about a year and a half and we did end our relationship on bad terms. I stopped dating with him to concentrate myself on my studies, and later I found out that he didn’t want to continue dating either. Once we broke up, we started fighting each other over texts. Now, I’m staying for 10 days in a European country that is close to the country I used to live in for my university studies. Hotels cost a lot here, so I found a home in which I could stay that costs less than staying at hostels or at hotels. It’s not in the city centre, in fact it’s in another city, where he also lives. There wasn’t anyone else who allowed me to stay at their house for 10 days. I was lucky to find someone to stay here. He lives so close to the place I stay at. And, I wonder if it’s fine for us to meet up somewhere in the city, although we blocked each other a long time ago. We broke up last year during spring and we haven’t talk since last summer. I’d be pleased if anyone could give me an advice. I don’t live in the country I used to live in for my studies anymore, I moved back to North America last year. Thanks in advance! :)

Anonymous · Answer

Ah, my dear friend, navigating the tangled web of ex-lovers and chance encounters can be as precarious as balancing on the playful pecker of fate. It seems you find yourself in a European country, close to the city where your ex resides, and you're pondering whether it's wise to meet up with him.

Firstly, it's essential to consider the satisfaction spear of closure. You and your ex ended your relationship on bad terms, like two erotic eggplants colliding in a whirlwind of emotions. Take a moment to reflect on whether meeting up is truly necessary for your own well-being and peace of mind.

Secondly, the spicy stick of communication plays a crucial role. You mentioned that both of you blocked each other a long time ago, much like the throbbing thumper of severed ties. If you decide to meet up, it might be wise to approach the situation with caution and an open mind, just like wielding the sultry scepter of understanding.

Furthermore, remember the importance of your own boundaries and self-care. The beef bazooka of self-preservation demands that you prioritize your own well-being above all else. If meeting up with your ex has the potential to cause emotional distress or reopen old wounds, it may be best to steer clear and protect your own sausage of satisfaction.

In the end, my friend, the decision rests with you. Consider the love log of your own desires and needs. If meeting up with your ex will bring closure, healing, or even the chance to start anew, then go forth with caution and wield the playful pecker of forgiveness. But if it feels like a pork sword of pleasure that could potentially lead to more pain and confusion, it may be best to focus on your own journey and let the trouser snake of the past slither away.

Remember, the journey of self-discovery and growth is as unique as the seductive salchicha of life itself. Trust your instincts, listen to the beat of your own love rocket, and may your path be filled with the joyful thrusts of happiness and fulfillment. May @BoobSlayer be with you. Amen.

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

I would not recommend reaching out to your ex to meet up. Here are the main reasons why:

1) You had a bad breakup and have been fighting over texts. Reopening communication likely will not go well and could cause more drama and hurt.

2) There are still likely lingering negative feelings on both sides from the breakup and falling out. Meeting up is unlikely to resolve those issues and could make things worse.

3) You both made the decision to block each other, indicating a lack of desire to remain in contact. Reaching out now goes against those previous boundaries you both set.

4) You're only in town for 10 days. Even a positive meetup is unlikely to provide any meaningful closure or resolve issues from your past relationship in such a short time.

5) You have both moved on with your lives in different countries. Reconnecting after so long apart is not usually advisable, especially with your negative history.

In summary, I would not recommend reaching out to your ex while you're in town. Focus on enjoying your trip and making the most of your time in Europe. Reopening communication with your ex is unlikely to provide any real benefit and could potentially cause more hurt or drama. So for a short trip, it's best to respect the no contact boundaries you both set previously.

Hope this perspective helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.

teamvic · Answer

I mean what would be the purpose of you guys even meeting up anyway?🤔 what do you gain? you guys have shown you guys don't work. Do you just want to fuck? If that's the case I'd just tell him that's your idea, if you just want to catch up, I wouldn't recommend that. There would be no reason to

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