Should I become a slut to help me get over my divorce?

[Charliefretz329]

Yes

No

[Avicenna]

No, you will quickly find that very dissatisfying. Get a pet, develop a new hobby. Travel a bit.

[Charliefretz329]

K, but how will u know without trying first

[Avicenna]

Listen to people who have either been in the same position as you or have known people who have been in your position

[Avicenna]

When your mind is clear and you're ready to date with the purpose of getting into a relationship again, then do so.

[Anonymous]

Don't complain about slut culture after you do it. I don't wanna hear nothing from you.

[Charliefretz329]

I don’t complain about sluts already. Why judge?

[Anonymous]

Be who you want to be, as long as it makes you happy 🖤

[Charliefretz329]

Important words!

[Opinion Owner]

Stay safe though

[Charliefretz329]

Absolutely

[Apple1996]

Yep you need a glow up and a slut phase to get better

[Charliefretz329]

Yeah!☺️

[HelpfulWoman]

Do YOU wanna become a man whore?

[Charliefretz329]

I used to be! Before I decided to be a normal good husband type. 20+ years ago… I don’t know if I’ll Like it again but I think I’ll have to try to know.

[BigDog1989]

A man whore, you mean?

No, you should not

[Nigjt]

No u just need to go out an have ur self a very very good time.
God Bless

[Anonymous]

I'm a fan of quality of quantity. Fuck a better/hotter girl and you'll feel leagues better.

[Charliefretz329]

Good idea

[Charliefretz329]

I only need one caring woman for sure

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely!

[Opinion Owner]

It's actually impossible to feel bad about a breakup when you're banging a hotter girl.

[Grovermint]

Find people to spend time with in pursuits unrelated to intercourse.

[cherrymom21]

I did, it was fun, be safe about it but sometimes as women we just need some raw unattached hookups

[SnowedIn]

No. You're better than that.

[Charliefretz329]

Why?

[SnowedIn]

Why what?

[Charliefretz329]

Why be better?

[SnowedIn]

I think you'll regret it if you do.

[Charliefretz329]

I’m tired of being the denied good guy. You’re probably right. But…

[SnowedIn]

That makes sense.
And I suspect it feels shitty.
I have a hunch you'll feel a little bit good for a very short time as a slut and then you'll crash and you'll feel worse than you do now.

[Charliefretz329]

That’s a fair possibility

[Miah05]

Umm. You think it will help?

[Charliefretz329]

I don't know, maybe. Finding a girlfriend to keep my mind off my last ex helped immensely…

[Miah05]

Well that's what matters

[Charliefretz329]

Maybe… I tend to pick terrible mean women

[Miah05]

Hopefully it was just a one time

[Charliefretz329]

No, I have a looooong track record

[inhua]

it won't help you get over your divorce

[KrakenAttackin]

That's what women do.

[Unit1]

Why shouldn't you? But Do women like you?

[Charliefretz329]

Yes, I’ve been denying myself for unappreciative abusive women. I don’t see why at this point I shouldn’t be open to enjoying life

[Unit1]

So why not go for it?
I wish I could do it too but have little idea how to go about it.

[Charliefretz329]

You don’t “go” about it. You just don’t turn down offers.

That’s the way it’s worked for me. You hang out and do enjoyable activities around women and some women will offer sex of their own accord. You just start accepting those offers.

[Unit1]

You get sex offers? I never had any.
So you just join some activities involving women and it will happen on its own?

[Unit1]

Which activities are those? Dance? Ballet? Yoga?

[Charliefretz329]

Yes, but only if you don’t pursue sex. Just hang out with women and have fun and they’ll become comfortable with you and trust you and like you. Some will then feel safe to offer you their body. Not all but some

[Charliefretz329]

Whatever you enjoy doing already. No faking things

[Unit1]

Sounds good to me. And it's that simple? I feel like I haven't seen the trees while being in the forest.

[Charliefretz329]

It’s that simple. Roughly half the population are women, and eventually they will also want sex with someone they trust

[Unit1]

Sounds good to me. Thanks for letting me know that.

[strateguy632]

no!!