My girlfriend is a slut, can I change her to be with me only? or is it a lost cause?

[Anonymous]

i found this girl,

she has the perfect personality, she's hot as f***, we have so much in common and she's so fun to be with. The only thing wrong with her is that she's a slut. She gets with other guys, and when I found out about it, I broke up with her. I stopped talking to her and then a few weeks later she called me and invited me over and she told me she missed me and all that. I know she's still a slut, I'm not stupid. Obviously in 2 weeks she isn't gonna change. Is there any way I can change her? or is it something I'm gonna find myself wasting effort on?

Drop her.

Try and change her.

[hisangel]

Well, I think the fact that you call this women a slut is probably a good sign that this isn't going to last. I understand that you are saying she is sexually promiscuous but if you have deep feelings for this women, I would hope you would see her as more than a hot slut. That might just be the pain talking but if I started calling a guy I liked a man slut, I might rethink my real desire for him.

And no you can't change her because she doesn't want to change. You know she sleeps around and if you want to be with her, that is a choice you will have to make. But if you know that that is how she is, you are agreeing to it if you go back to her.

[Anonymous]

I like to disagree you can change a whore i got raped twice after i lost my virginity & it changed something i started wanting sex more this was my 10th grade yr i had sex with a total of 10 or 12 guys from 2011 until now 2014 my pass haunts me wen people found out i quickly changed i dont have sex so much no more i stopped because i didn't want to become such a nasty thing i learned my lesson you can change a Whore but only if they want too

[Anonymous]

You can't turn a ho into a housewife. Why are you wasting time trying to change a ho anyway? If you found her slutty, leave her slutty. She is not going to change. Don't try to be Captain Save a Ho and just leave her.

[Anonymous]

im in the same situation, when I first started dateing my girl she was so sweet and loving, but then the ex's started harrasing her and now she's a druggy hoe and while she says she loves me she makes posts about other guys and stuff, if she was good once then why not try to help her back to how she was, hoes have problems that's all, they just have to meet someone determined enough to help, I know I'm gonna help my girl all I can, will it work? I don't know I have no faith but I have slight hope in my mind. so can you fix her, dude yeah you can but ask yourself is it worth the fight and is she willing to accept help

[Lessons]

Frm my personal experience dear bro leave her as soon as possible. Bcos first of all its not about whether she change or not. Once u found tht she was a slut , how ever she changes u can't accept it. deep inside u ll be alwys having doubts.. and as humans we all have temptations.. and later if she may changes too u ll be gng to count even her small mistakes. Aftr all a slut ll be alwys a slut. there may be situation which mkes women as slutty.. but its all not excuses bcos there wnt be no sound without clapping two hands together. its bttr leave her as soon as possible.. or its really gng to ruin ur life

[armyant]

Wasting your time. She's going to keep doing it as long as her looks allow her; girls like her can only settle down after that well dries up, but whether or not you want the baggage at that point is the real puzzler.

[John83]

No, I don't think you can change her and it wouldn't be worth your time to try. You'd be better off finding another girl who has the same things you like in her and isn't a slut.

[Johnnybgood88]

Unfortunately we must move on from these kind of women. They can not change and will not 100 percent there are 3.8 billion women on this planet why we put ourselves in these situations only to get hurt and disrespected and lied to I don't know but I'm going through similar thing broz n haven't but should stay away from her but one thing I do know is she is going to really fuck you up with any other future relationship s big time so get rid of her for evr good luck

[Motionlessinbrides]

In my opinion, u can change her... Think about it if u see something in her that no one else sees about her then u can take that and make it where u can make her feel and realize that life isn't about sex, cheating, popularity, or money... It's about being with it soul mate and family and living a great life style. If u truly love this girl then u can make it happen, but u have to know what to say or do to be able to make it possible

[Jpalms56]

Bro, From personal experience...Dont try. You can turn a hoe to a housewive. It doesn't work. you will only get hurt

[Anonymous]

You can't make no hoe into a housewife. AIn't. Gone. Happen.

[Anonymous]

Never! I wasted years of my life and money trying to change a whore and at the end she left me for a broke guy who drinks on the streets. I schooled her, sheltered her, fed her and dressed her. In the end she went back to whorring with low self respecting people like herself.

[1FastFC]

lost cause