We’ve been broken up for 3 months now - he is in therapy and he knows I miss him. I can see it in his eyes he misses me too, but he keeps saying he will come to meet when and if he is ready.
The last week things shifted and now when I message him a work question on Teams (chat), he always walks over to my desk (out of his way) to respond instead of messaging back.
Do we think he likes seeing my face/ misses me or what? Half of the time they are very simple questions and if he didn’t want to message back he could just call me on the platform instead of walking all the way over.
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You already said that you see it in his eyes that he misses you, so I feel like what you’re really asking for is false hope, even if that isn’t your intention. You miss him and looking for signs of rekindling, but I think it’s important to look at the bigger picture as well when it comes to staying separated. He’s in therapy and not in the right frame of mind to be a boyfriend right now. I’m sure you’d respond with some form of ‘I know’, so if that’s the case then be sure to remind yourself of that in these moments where you’re really going through it.
He still feels comfortable around you?