Friend is going through a possible divorce and I don't know what to do?

[Anonymous]

They got married at the end of 2020 (so we know how that shit show went with covid). And I didn't think they had problems. But now she is starting to tell me she is paranoid of possibly divorcing and I don't know how to handle her. She is constantly sobbing. I don't know what to do. Whenever I suggest things, she shuts them down. I want to hand her off to a couples therapist, but again, shut down. This is also affecting me because it's hard on anyones mental health when someone comes to you acting like this.

Along with that, she also has health issues such as PCOS. I am truly worried for her wellbeing and I'm at a loss... Has anyone dealt with a good friend on the verge of divorce?

[kylee2437]

I’ve dealt with a friendship that had relationship troubles for an entire year and me and her aren’t friend anymore one being I was sick of hearing her relationship issues when she just kept doing what she wanted instead of what I suggested. You need to tell her you love her as a friend and you are hurt she is going through things but you miss the friendship you carried before her contact with you everyday is now her relationship problems. It’s not your responsibility to be her therapist.

[exitseven]

My best friend is on wife number 4. I think that he has a hero complex and needs to rescue these girls. Then he gets bored and looks for the next one. He usually ends up with waitresses or aerobics instructors.