How can I help an acquaintance’s daughter, who’s going through a nasty divorce?

[HappyWoman34]

Would cooking some casseroles that she could later defrost, helping mind her kids, or buying her clothes help her? I live close by and she’s around my age and has two young kids.

[caring__1]

You say she's the daughter of an acquaintance, not a friend of yours, so she may be reluctant to believe you don't have an agenda of your own. Bringing food to a stranger may appear to be coming on too strong. If you truly want to help, find a way to accidentally meet her. For instance, if she takes her kids to the park, spend time at the park and make her acquaintance. If her divorce is nasty, she may just vent on you. Ask yourself whether you can accept her venting without telling her what she should do or feeling overwhelmed by her negativity. What she probably needs most of all is a stable basis she can grow from.

Facilitate her exploration and discovery. Have her focus on her future and what is within her control to take her there. When she shares information, don't make assumptions you understand. Ask clarifying questions: "In what way?" "How might that move you forward?" "What does forward look like to you?" "Give me some examples." You may make a friend, though it's challenging to build a friendship on conflict. She may see you as a reminder of a time in her life she just wants to forget. Just be consistent and let her set the pace and direction.

[Avicenna]

All of those things would be helpful, especially providing some child care

[Surely]

In most cases. Any assistance or help would be appreciated. Even just a friend to talk to.
Just don’t become overly aggressive with trying to help.

[Anonymous]

Only do what you can afford, and baking food sounds nice.

[Alex8736]

how long have you two known each other?