RELATIONSHIPS & CHEATING- PLEASE I WOULD LIKE ALL PERSPECTIVES ON THIS SITUATION?

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  • What are some questions can I /should ask regarding my requirements and expectations moving forward. because my partner cheated on me. Physically with his ex ( his child’s mom) & twice over the phone with two other females. he says that he wants to start over start fresh, he loves me wants to be with me etcc…but in the back of my mind that’s in a way unrealistic.. because of everything that’s already happened ( he got his past partner pregnant again while I was also pregnant ) & it’s been very hard for me to move past that because it’s still fresh it happened this year during the summer I learned this a couple of months after the baby was born. everything he told me that I believed to be true was all a lie. All the trust was broken. So I found myself in a my head a lot thinking about everything all of the lies & coverups. It really started affecting. How I see myself as a person. My self-esteem my pregnancy in the beginning wasn’t really good and Postpartum was terrible and think that the person you want it to be with you through that emotional experience. The most was with someone else from their past supporting them going to all of their doctor appointments and being there for them postpartum to help out with their baby. It’s what hurt the most. And it’s sad because that was my first pregnancy I never would’ve thought my first pregnancy would’ve gone like that. It’s so much more to the story.
RELATIONSHIPS & CHEATING- PLEASE I WOULD LIKE ALL PERSPECTIVES ON THIS SITUATION?
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