RELATIONSHIPS & CHEATING- PLEASE I WOULD LIKE ALL PERSPECTIVES ON THIS SITUATION?

[Loveworthy]

• What are some questions can I /should ask regarding my requirements and expectations moving forward. because my partner cheated on me. Physically with his ex ( his child’s mom) & twice over the phone with two other females. he says that he wants to start over start fresh, he loves me wants to be with me etcc…but in the back of my mind that’s in a way unrealistic.. because of everything that’s already happened ( he got his past partner pregnant again while I was also pregnant ) & it’s been very hard for me to move past that because it’s still fresh it happened this year during the summer I learned this a couple of months after the baby was born. everything he told me that I believed to be true was all a lie. All the trust was broken. So I found myself in a my head a lot thinking about everything all of the lies & coverups. It really started affecting. How I see myself as a person. My self-esteem my pregnancy in the beginning wasn’t really good and Postpartum was terrible and think that the person you want it to be with you through that emotional experience. The most was with someone else from their past supporting them going to all of their doctor appointments and being there for them postpartum to help out with their baby. It’s what hurt the most. And it’s sad because that was my first pregnancy I never would’ve thought my first pregnancy would’ve gone like that. It’s so much more to the story.

[SueShe]

The thing is that once you are a cheater, you will always be one, regardless of what people say. It is only a matter of incentive. If the incentive is big enough, then all the good resolutions vanish instantly.

Never ever believe a cheater. He can promise you on the head of his mother or on what is most sacred to him, you can rest assured that he will do it again but guess what? He will blame you for doing it because you could not give what he wanted or he will use any excuse for relapsing.

He will go to great lengths to try to blame you for his relapse. You are 25 and in his eyes, you are not the youngest anymore and you have all kinds of physical faults and your emotional state is not stable. Those will be his arguments.

Do yourself a favor and think of your baby first. Do not make the mistake to believe for one second that he will remain faithful. He may remain faithful for one year but in 5 or 10 years from now, when you are "old" in his eyes and have lost all the physical attraction because he is so used to your body, he will go hunting again. Guaranteed.

[HelpfulWoman]

ew ew ew ew ew
WHY do you have no standards? LEAVE. If he "loved you", he wouldn't have done it in the first place. he wouldn't have SCREWED the ex and got her pregnant again.

Being moronic like this is why incels think women are stupid.

[Loveworthy]

Thank youuuu !!! I appreciate the blunt Honesty 💯💯💯it was really hard at first to let go because I had all of these emotions hit me at once. It’s like mentally Ik I deserve so much better & as me being the person I am I would’ve been done & washed my hands of the whole situation. But emotionally it was hard because of that attachment. ( can u believe at first he had the nerve to say he spoke with his mom about it and she told him well theirs people who done worser things than what he did to me behind my back 🤦🏾‍♀️). But your 💯righttt

[Anonymous]

Sadly, it is a part of life for most people. The main thing is knowing how to recover and move on with life.

[Anonymous]

Cheating is the worst in a relationship

[bigone101]

Hey hru?

[HelpfulWoman]

duuuude, can you not take a fucking hint? context?