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I'm going to say in the West... a man stands to lose a lot to the point that it's not even worth the effort. All the cards are stacked against the males... marriage has become a bullshit idea.
And this is coming from a man that's been married for over 10 years. I would not suggest marriage to any of my kids... male or female. The legal/judicial system are balls deep in your relationship and it really isn't anything more than proving you're willing to get raped by the system to prove your love. The old meaning is dead.
Who loses harder? I think the males do... the whole damn system is designed to rape them for all they're worth.
I'll put it like this... I watched my mom do it to my stepdad... I learned. I have purposely not worked and remained the main childcare provider for reasons. If divorce happened to me tomorrow... I get the alimony, child custody, and all the damn support. And some bitch will come in here all mad at me for figuring out how to do that, but it is what it is...2 really can play that game.
But I don't hate the players... the fucking game and our government that created it... I hate those cunts for it.
The male looses both socially and financially much more , generally ( virtually always ) less contact with the children , and is outcast socially when he has the children , women are not , its considered " normal " , I did 50/50 custody for 14 years , and I enjoyed it , but society was tougher on me , after age 15 the girls came with me full time , I made a rule for myself that when with me , I would not go to any function that my kids were not allowed to attend.
Society , and women judge a single father as " baggage " despite the fact he may still be young , I was completely shocked , as time went on , I just ignored it.
I ended up getting screwed when I got divorced. He lied to the judge and said he wasn't working when he was! He said he lives alone when he was living with this young lady.
That's if you're talking about material things.
If you're talking about emotional things, you both lose.
Sorry but your question is kind confusing. Maybe you should do an update on it so we know what you mean.
Breaking up is free, divorce is very expensive!
Guys should lose more
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There are a lot of factors that would play into this. In the traditional divorce, the highest earner might lose the most financially. If there are kids involved, someone is going to get the short end of the stick, usually the father will get less time with his children.
I think it really depends on the circumstances of the divorce, and why it occurred.
Divorces:
Financially, some states now are no default divorce only, they don’t bother with adjudicating that anymore. All states have the option to file for no-fault, a majority have the option to file for at-fault. Which ever spouse earns/owns more typically loses more without prenuptial. Marital assets are split and are considered commingled. Premarital assets mostly are not.
Divorces and breakups:
Emotionally, immeasurable. Everyone loses.
Divorced women as smnost times women are less self sufficient financially than males or at least have tougher lives and circumstances so after having spent that time married and then just a divorce pops out of nowhere it’s kinda throwing back too far and devastating for a woman!!
I'm not voting because there is no lose more win more in a divorce. You both have broken hearts you both have broken a home. You both broke your children's hearts. There's no losers there's no winners. The only ones that lose are the children.
If there are kids. Kids more.
other than that… the one who is being dumped.
men and women both lose equally in break up and divorce.
but more importantly!.. Lawyer, and court win, judges and jury get paid and two new individuals again become customers to the dating market!
There is no way to choose from those options :P
In general, the weaker partner loses more.
If women's dating value is their youth, then men's dating value is what can be extracted from him in the event of a divorce.
In general men tend to lose more. Certainly when kids are invovled it's usually the fathers who end up with less custody.
Women would have an easier time finding casual sex.
In a breakup: whoever is more committed.
In a divorce: where I live, whoever is the greatest earner. I've seen husband AND wives get cheated on and still end up paying open-ended alimony due to length of marriage.
Divorce and in divorce loss is more for either side. Emotionally both are bad. We might think one gender is less harmed but it's harmful for both. Men typically don't cry about it
neither jackass nor bitch will lose anything. they will still be jackass and bitch
Honestly most are just emotional rows adjuducsted by a judges assistant.
You really only need to worry if one spouse has no career or you’re very rich. Of course kids too, and emotional parents use their kids as weapons.
The guy always loses more its universal fact and if you don't belive it then you are still inside matrix enjoy your stay
The one who still cares loses the most. Why do we have always make things a male vs female thing.
It's all loss, but i think that the divorce is a bigger loss and a sin too if it's done for something other than cheating or continuous beating...
Because marriage offers legal benefits, married people lose more. Generally-speaking, the spouse with more to lose, (for example, custodial parents or the spouse who makes less money), loses more.
It is hard to pick, but I think most of the time, the male gets the short end of the stick.
Honestly everyone loses something when a relationship ends, but men lose more in divorce by a long shot
No idea if we can generalize it that much.
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