Does my ex not care AT ALL?

[Anonymous]

I recently broke up with my boyfriend, because we want different things, like I want to be married within the next 2 years, he said engaged within the next 2 years but not married, I want 4 kids, he wants 1-2, I want to be a SAHM permanently but he expects me to go back to work after the kids go to school, etc

He accepted it, I gave him all his stuff from my place and he gave me mine from his, and I literally haven't heard a single word from him since. He blocked me on social media, and hasn't replied to my texts, hasn't reached out to see how I'm doing, I tried to visit him at his house but his roommate said he doesn't want to see me.

Doesn't he care about me at all? Did I mean nothing?

What to do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang boo, breakups are always rough, but that is kinda weird how he just cut you off completely. From what you said it sounds like you guys cared about each other a lot.

Maybe he's really hurt and needs space to get over things since you wanted different big life stuff. Going no contact is sometimes how guys deal with their feelings instead of talking about it. We're not always the best at emotions haha.

Personally if a girl meant something to me, I'd at least wanna check in and make sure she's ok. But maybe he needs more time. I'd say give him some space for now if you can. Do your own thing, hang with friends, play some sports - all that good stuff.

If you still feeling down in a few weeks, maybe send one last text just letting him know you care and hope he's doing alright. But don't beg or force contact. Ball's in his court after that.

Stay strong - I know it sucks now but there's other fish in the sea. Focus on you and soon you'll be feeling better in no time luv! Hit me up if you need anything.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

What? you broke up, you move on. He took you at your word, ended it and taken it to no contact to allow him to heal and move on from you.

What are you not understanding? You honor his wish and leave him alone, your no longer an interest for him which means he doesn't care nor want to know how your doing

[bobalife]

Despite breaking up with him without exploring and finding a middle ground… anybody would be hurt/upset and may do the same thing. If you truly wanna make it work, I guess you shouldn’t had broken up in the first place & either you’ll find a way or maybe it’s fully over. I’m sorry.

[Anonymous]

Well I mean, it is a breakup, not a time out. He is firm in his decision and you’re doubling back on yours, but why? You want two completely different lives and the reasons behind it are uncompromisable.

[KrakenAttackin]

Anon... a time out is a breakup.

[Opinion Owner]

I used to think the same thing but I guess a time out is equivalent to a hall pass these days..

[KrakenAttackin]

Op... Fuck that.

[Opinion Owner]

Agreed😂

[Summeroflove]

Because. You broke up…. It’s over. Don’t worry about him. It’s really none of your business. Is not his responsibility to worry about you anymore and it’s not your job to worry about him.



Grief is normal. It’s okay to feel sad. But you or j will hopefully find the right one

[Paris13]

He is Obviously Upset and Trying To Move On. xxoo

[admles]

It's a break up, what do you expect?

You're no longer together, why would he reach out to you?

Most likely, you're just annoyed that you don't have power anymore, you were expecting him to come crawling back to you, begging to take him back, that'd he'd do things the way you want.

Move on with your life. He's already doing it.

[KrakenAttackin]

@admles. Exactly, she can't manipulate him anymore and it makes her crazy.

[Mado108]

Hmm you broke up with him. Yes, it’s normal he doesn’t want to hear from you

[laly520]

he doesn't care anymore about u n he is so done with u

I dont see a reason why u would care if he cares or not

its over

[Anonymous]

That’s normal, you guys are broken up after all, he’s not obligated to check up on you. I think you need to give him space and try to move on, what’s done is done.

[Anonymous]

you two could have easily compromised, that's not that different of wants...

you two broke up, what is he supposed to do? continue talking to you?

[KrakenAttackin]

He's done with you. The only power a man has is the power to walk away and he is exercising it.