My boyfriend broke up with me over a call just now.. what to do?

[Anonymous]

I am on my periods and have been facing a lot of mood swings lately so i was feeling too low and wanted to talk but he was not giving much attention so i kind of decided to disturb his sleep and take a little revenge but he broke up and after breaking up he went back to sleep

Also i told him that if he breaks up i won't patchup.

He will surely call back and try to patchup with me once he wakes up then should i patchup with him?

He was right in doing so

Or he was wrong

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he’s just upset and needs a little space. Imagine you asking someone to respect a certain boundary and then because of how they’re feeling they ignore what you asked? Depending on how you’re feeling, you may burst. Now in this situation your boyfriend may have overreacted but then again- I have been extremely sleepy and I have been awaken out of my sleep and I’ll tell u now- I feel like the devil. Playing with someone’s sleep is no joke. If I were you, apologize to him. And then give him space. He’ll come around. Trust me. He’s just mad and sleepy.

[Smashingdoozy]

Why would you want to be with someone who breaks up with you over something so trivial?

[MrOracle]

It's not trivial. She violated his boundaries intentionally, for "revenge." That means she doesn't respect him, but expects him to respect her. That's not how life works.

[Smashingdoozy]

@MrOracle that's trivial as fuck. He wasn't giving her attention she needed, I take that as him ignoring her.

He wasn't mad about her getting "revenge " he was mad about being woken up by her which is dumb as fuck

[MrOracle]

He had specifically told her he needed sleep and not to wake him up. She intentionally did so anyway, out of spite, by her own words.

If she needed more attention than he could give, and she broke up with him because of that, hey, fair enough. But she acted like a spoiled child, and he broke up with her. I wouldn't expect him to come back.

[Smashingdoozy]

@MrOracle where does she say he specifically said he needed sleep and to not wake him?

[handsomelad70]

Dump his a**, lady.

[BoopBoopBeep]

So you've been moody, set a double standard and were flagrantly hypocritical and you want to know if he'll wake up and patch things up? God you sound exhausting. I hope for his sake he doesn't.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Good Job!

In life the only way to move is forward & unfortunately when breakups do happen that is the only way to move.

[jahaims]

You act immature so he moved on. Good for him.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's pretty wack no lie

[laly520]

move on

[strateguy632]

1st.