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Well long story short Me and my partner split up last week (not going to explain why) we are still living together due to it being too expensive for myself to rent anywhere right now. Since the split my ex has been cooking me meals, putting up a photo frame that fell down and got broken months ago he’s put it back up for me - there’s photos of him and myself in the frame. Just don’t understand why would you do all of that if we aren’t together no more?
Also for another part that might make you all laugh, went for a bath last night and when I came back downstairs he asked me why it took me so long (never knew I had a time limit) so I told him I was busy shaving my legs as us girls do that when it’s hot outside and his comment back was who are you trying to impress? Like what?
Please don’t sugar coat anything I just want to know why and please don’t ask me to ask him because I doubt he’d give me a proper reason
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Girl that's mad sus! Sounds like your ex is tryna play mind games with you still. Couple thoughts:
- He's prob still messed up about the breakup and not fully over you yet. Cookin meals n fixin frames is his way of hanging onto the relationship.
- Dudes hate when their girl suddenly becomes "available" again after a split. Makes em jealous even if they were the one who wanted out.
- Asking who you're tryna impress is to gauge if you're over him too - he wants you all to himself still, I'm bettin.
- But he don't get to have it both ways! He can't dip out then dictate what you do with your time. Not cool.
I'd tell him straight - you're single now so he needs to back off with the ex-controlling behavior. You do you, booooo!
And like, feel free to start flirtin around a bit extra hard. Nothing gets revenge on a guy like seeing their ex move on happy without em, ya feel? 😜
Unfortunately since you didn’t want to explain what caused the split to begin with, fully understanding why he’s doing those things isn’t possible.