Is it okay to have a meal with an ex?

[Anonymous]

My ex reached out with a new number to ask me out for a meal and we confirmed a date together and we're eating at the usual place we used to eat at. The breakup happened over a year ago on good terms, the last time we met in person was over 8 months ago, there was periods where we weren't talking (The longest was 3 months) and we don't talk to each other actively.

I don't know why she asked me out for a meal at our usual place, she's flying back to her country and might not return so I'm guessing it's to relive the good o'days, I still love her after all this time part of me wants to tell her but part of me doesn't, what should I do?

[kareenakapur]

tell her how you feel. If its not reciprocated then its not reciprocated. but then you never ever have to think what if? I met with my ex recently who we broke up a year ago. same thing we stopped talking for 3 months (while i was dating someone but i never told him i dated someone) Basically i asked my ex if he saw us ever getting back together and we both just cried. :( And he said i dont think we ever will. Our story ended because of his parents though. But i dont regret asking. Now i know he will never fight for me,

[Nikki1989]

As long as your partner is fine with it.

[OlderAndWiser]

Keep it all hidden within and you can spend the rest of your life with regrets, wondering what might have been, and unable to move forward with your life.

[strateguy632]

tell her she pays her part. i bet she will cancel.

[DrPepper12]

DANGER!!! If she's headed back then don't meet her. If she's DTF one more time and you don't catch any more feels then do it!

[Anonymous]

i think that's pretty random and maybe she's messing with your feelings.

[jahaims]

Always cut contact with an ex

[DishLady]

Meh… what for?

[In_Trance]

No it's not