Can’t divorced women no longer have true love?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

That depends more on you than anything else.

Let's flip it around. As a man, let's say I have a crappy, low-paying job. Does that make me less valuable as a potential partner in the eyes of women? I think we can all agree that it does. Let's say I also have a history of relationship violence. Would that lower my "market value" in women's eyes? For most women, definitely, though for a few, it might enhance my value. And let's say that I've fathered 4 children with 4 other women, and I don't support any of those children in any way. Does that lower my "market value?" I'm pretty sure it does.

If those things were true, could I expect to get a woman who was a 7, 8, or 9 out of 10 in market value? Should women who have high market value just ignore all of my negatives because I've decided that I'm a good person and have high value, or does the market (women seeking partners, in this case) decide my value? I think we all know the answer, which is that the market decides my value - what I believe my value is doesn't matter, because that's not going to affect what the market thinks my value is. And if I don't set realistic expectations for a partner, then I'm likely to spend the rest of my life alone - right?

Well, the exact same situation is true for women. You have a "market value", and your market value is determined by things that men value - whether or not YOU value them or think men should value them. And your market value is going to be affected by your choices and decisions. To men, a divorce is a big mark against you - if you could divorce the first guy, why should I believe you won't divorce me too? Your age is also a factor - women have the most value to men as a potential relationship when they are between 18 and 28 - in other words, during their period of maximum reproductive potential - and they become less valuable the further away from that age window that they get. There are other factors as well, which I have no idea whether they apply to you or not - in fact, nothing I'm writing here is specific to you, it's just general truth - but the bottom line is that a lot of women either do not understand, or refuse to accept, what men value in a potential relationship partner, and thus they rate themselves far above their "market value" - which means they feel entitled to be way too picky about superficial things and so they either get used or they end up alone.

Whether you will succeed or not depends on your ability to focus primarily on factors of long-term relationship success: the man's morals, values, and life-goals, and your willingness to sacrifice things like his looks, income, or social status down to the level of your own market value. If you can't do that, you'll likely be alone forever. If you can, then you have the potential to find a quality partner - though perhaps not one who impresses your friends on Instagram.

Your outcomes will heavily reflect your priorities, so, again, it's largely up to you.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Anyone can find love again. It doesn't matter about your age or even your appearance. There can always be someone that is compatible with you at any stage in your life

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

Just because you're divorced doesn't mean you can't find love anymore. Especially if your marriage just wasn't working out or you had a bad partner.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Of course, they can. Sometimes even more love because they have learned from their previous mistakes.

Raaj4you · Answer

You can find true love only when a new guy fully trusts you and loves you. But it's hard to trust divorced women.

I would trust a divorced woman only if she makes a legally approved pre-nuptial agreement with me. She should promise that she will never claim alimony of any type: property or cars or assets or homes or maintenance or stocks or precious jewellery if she files for divorce case due to family issues. She should promise that she would walk away from her husband's life after getting the divorce decree.

Billlewis · Answer

Sure. I think they often end up being happier than most people.

Berethor · Answer

No one want a single mom, also how can a man trust a woman who left other man?

molonski2 · Answer

Of course they can , some of the best women are divorced.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

They most definitely can but there's also a possibility that it can get somewhat more difficult for them tho

SotiCoto · Answer

No reason why they shouldn't. One would simply hope they wouldn't make the same mistakes a second time.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Not with double negatives. That's a turnoff.😜

nawtee_me · Answer

True love is for everyone including the divorced. The second time may be the charm where the first time didn’t work out.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Of course they can

MisterWack · Answer

Divorced men & women can and will have true love.

Iron_Man · Answer

I guess she can

shortster · Answer

It becomes more challenging, but not impossible.

woahhh152 · Answer

Ofc they can. Live your life lady!

mayurr · Answer

Maybe but I'll not choose a divorced woman.

Ladybossj · Answer

She definitely can

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