So there is this article of this woman who divorced her husband while he was having testicular cancer and she divorced him because supposedly everything became all about him. My reaction is the dude had testicular cancer. It’s like a man who divorces his wife because he has breast cancer whoever does that is a complete asshole, who should never get married again or even have the opportunity to have sex he should have his testicles cut off (I am being a bit hyperbolic here) but that’s how much of a animal that dude would be. He’s not an asshole he’s not a dick because that would suggest that he has some humanity left. The same thing goes for women who divorce her husbands because they have testicular cancer, even if the dude dies, she should still be with her husband until death. Just like the guy whose wife has breast cancer should be with her until death and hopefully the woman or man doesn’t die but somehow she made the right decision according to herself? She did this all in the name of self love. So why don’t cancel self love and embrace the web for others. That’s not yourself. I’m sorry I don’t wanna live in a country where this came as shit happens and is accepted.
Need elaboration on "it became all about him."
I see this in 2 scenarios:
1.) 'All about him' is just referencing his medical needs and about what he can and cannot do in his every day life. He's still trying his best to do what he can do and be a husband.
2.) 'All about him' is him bring a total asshole using cancer as his crutch. He's miserable all the time and makes sure to let everyone know; riding that pity party hard. Talks down to his wife indirectly treating her like this is all her fault.
In the 1st scenario, I 100% agree with you. You make the vow "for better, for worse" and "in sickness and in health" for a reason.
In the second scenario, I'd side with her on the divorce.
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I think people should mind their own business for a change.
unless the dude himself is a hot bad boy, the days where women would stick by their man's side to the very end are getting more and more numbered
No, I feel they should have to marry Newt Gingrich. Let them see what the other side is like.
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