Do you agree with Pearl's presentation for why dating is crap in 2022?

[Lookingforthetruth]

Cliffs:

-Before reliable contraception, women risk getting pregnant if they slept around

-Women thus had to think carefully on who they would spread their legs for since it could mean them ending up single mother which was looked down upon.

-In addition, fathers were actively involved in vetting male suiters to make sure they were reliable, loyal and good provider for his daughter

-After contraception came about, women had less fear in place of getting knocked up and becoming a baby mamma. Woman can now freely hoe around.

-This lead to more single parent households since women's judgement in picking men often lead to them picking men that other woman want but who may not be good providers (Chad, Tyrone, Jamal, Wang, Chadjeet, Juan)

-Thanks to archaic marital laws that allow "no fault divorce", women could freely marry a man that they don't really love, cheat on him with Chad and get a payday if they so ever choose to divorce him. This means that women who previously agreed to traditional roles in the past of a good provider husband could screw him over now if they wanted to.

-Women no longer have any deterrent in place to remain in marriage outside of emotional sentiment for ones spouse. While in the past, if a woman choose to divorce her man, she would end up homeless and be seen as a pariah by the community; as can be seen in India where the divorce rates are low.

-Simps have also provided a nice cushy, safety net for women when making bad choices in life. As these type of males will gladly wife up these baby mamas and try to make it work.

-She then mention government, who will tax the general public to take care of these out of wedlock children.

-Social media has warped many woman's perception of their worth in dating. Many average women get on there and get complimented over and over by both men and woman. It also gives HVM access to them more easily and make women think they are at their level when they sleep with them.

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1 y

- So a lot of women get over inflated ego because she thinks she's on the level of guys who were sleeping with her. Eventually it hits them that the guy that they sleep with isn't the same guy that will wife them up. When woman's biological clock starts ticking, they eventually pick from among the best men willing to commit to them and settle for him.

-So average guy and girl gets married. However, girl isn't happy and she either cheats or leave him.

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1 y

-This is supported by data on marriages which showed that sexual partner counter correlated with marital dissatisfaction among woman over 10 year period.

[Sixgunsound]

As usual, she’s not wrong! It’s not like traditional gender roles and traditional marriage saw humanity through many thousands of years of societal development and continuation. So much has changed so quickly in the last hundred years, and look what the change has led to. This is a perfect example of yet another failed government program which not only does not solve the problem it was intended to solve, but instead made things orders of magnitude worse. Ultimately the children of divorce suffer and lose the most. Ask me how I know?

[mickmrly]

So you’re saying that the children of divorce suffer the most, do you think that those kids would avoid divorce when growing up or would follow similar patterns because of their childhood?

[Sixgunsound]

@mickmrly What I’m saying is that we’re all individuals however there does seem to be a stronger correlation between divorced parents and their children divorcing.

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[Chthou95]

Seen a couple of her vids. She's correct on the
topics she's explaining. Very self aware which is a rare thing to see in a woman.

[Guy13]

Dating is like a job. lots of work, mostly going unnoticed, and get tribute and recognition occasionally.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I think she's full of shit.

Birth control doesn't actually work, and stds exist, so the "1960s view" of who should be called a hoe, is still (and always was) applicable, and simps are too rare to account for marrying hoes.

Most hoes marry (and divorce) players, which are just male hoes, and the types to be called a "chad" or a "tyrone" these days, are in fact, those same male hoes. So most hoes end up with "chads"/"tyrones", and then end up alone because of it.

Most women don't care about money or height when picking, or use the terms "chad" or "tyrone" as labels for that matter. Being a gold digger or height queen is niche, it's jerks that hoes often go for because those women are also jerks, so they can't see the scum in the pond because they can't see they are also scum.

The simple truth? Most people in general who are quick to hit on strangers, do so because they aren't afraid to lose whoever they hit on, and it's the people who can't work up the nerve to ask you out that are marriage material, and fun fact, thats MOST PEOPLE.

Courage in asking people out has dropped enourmously, because of "me too" culture making a guy's mere existence offensive.

A guy can't hit on you or he's a "creep", and THATS why marriage rates are at an all time low, because a nice guy is too afraid to hit on a woman, so it never even gets to the point of dating, let alone marriage. And the jerk is afraid of nothing, so he hits on, dates, and eventually divorces.

The lewd, ballsy nice guy is gone (publically anyway), and thats the kind of guy women need to snatch in order to stay married. The laws have made sure that only jerks (people unafraid of prison or public shaming) dare act that way.

The divorce rate is higher because people today don't dream about the perfect match anymore, they are jaded, they think it doesn't exist, they are impatient, they have sex too early, they are misinformed about birth control and condom success rates, and they make stupid choices and settle.

They are stupid, and they marry someone stupid who has nothing in common with them other than stupidity, so they fight and argue and break up.

[Anonymous]

It’s because most men suck and nowadays women don’t need a husband for financial or social reasons and thus a lot of women don’t settle for these crap men and will rather remain single than be with them, or divorce their asses when they stop making an effort as they so often do when they think they ”have” her.

The big change came when women started being seen as their own people and not as just the mrs or accessories to men. Beings who couldn’t even open bank accounts for themselves. It’s not that all the woman back in the days were happy with their unattractive, alcoholic, abusive, cheating husbands. It’s that they didn’t have much choice but to remain married to them. Now they don’t have to, and they don’t even have to marry them in the first place.

And yeah, there are for sure a lot of crap women out there too, but the above are the main reasons why many women today choose to stay single or leave their partners and why the dating scene looks like it does. It’s not that women’s standards are too high nowadays, it’s that women didn’t have many standards at all in the past - because they needed a husband asap and they were lucky if they found one who didn’t abuse her or were a complete alcoholic. That was considered a good man… Men don’t get away with this anymore, they actually need to bring real value to her life and make sure being with him is better than being single (or sleeping around with what you and other pathetic men call ”Chads”) and apparently this is incredibly difficult for some men to accept and they love to whine and obsess over it don’t they.

I promise you that most men would also rather sleep around with beautiful women than to marry an unattractive whiny nagging bitch, and you see the same goes for women. Most women would rather sleep around or have short relationships (or quite frankly, remain single and not see men at all which is probably more common than sleeping around) than to marry an unattractive, lazy, misogynic, non romantic stubborn goat of a man who does nothing around the house and yet demand she pays 50-50, nags for sex (which he’s completely selfish in bed too) and sits and scratches his ass in front of the television or computer 24/7 while trying to find someone on dating apps to flirt and cheat with.

You, and all the other men with your exact rethoric (that you learnt from psychos on youtube and then follow religiously and repeat like a parrot all over the internet, could almost be seen as a cult at this point but I digress) likes to point out that women go for the top men who have a ton of options and therefor just sleep around and never commit to any woman, but the point you miss is that a majority of women are in that exact situation. They have a ton of options, they could literally have a new man everyday if they want to, and then you wonder why she doesn’t settle for Mr Pathetic Whiner who thinks her standards are to high and she should lower them to include him even though he’s unable to create value for her and thinks having a dick between his legs should be enough and that because of said dick he deserves a hot, hapoy, sexy, young woman ready to commit to be his household slave who also pays half his bills. Get real.

[KrakenAttackin]

Anon.. you clearly have been chasing Chad Thundercock for too long. Don't blame everyone else for your inability to keep a man.

[bamesjond0069]

I was with you to about here "rather sleep around with beautiful women than to marry an unattractive whiny nagging bitch" yes or a girl who's not a Virgin. There are no marriageable women and hardly any dateable ones. So I just hookup a lot and almost never commit to any girls. So yes I agree.

"and you see the same goes for women" well maybe except if a woman's not marriage able or dateable then she doesn't deserve someone better than the average guys out there. So I agree most men are shit, but most women are shit, so it's precisely what each deserves. Most men deserve a fat nagging whore and most women deserve a video game porn addict broke wimp with anger issues.

"misogynic, non romantic stubborn goat of a man who does nothing around the house" well this is where you're wrong. Women in general love (not actual but what people generally call) misogynistic men who don't do house chores. Women love to do house chores for a man and show off their homemaker skills. But to a degree you're right, not to shitty men, but most women want to be that sahm to an actual top man. But to go back to the first point, 99.9% of women do not deserve to be provided for by a top man. So they don't deserve to be treated that way.

[USLegionary]

I've seen some of her stuff on Facebook. She's right. One of things she said on her show was that the reason men are reluctant to get married is because 80% of divorce is instigated by wives and there's a 50/50 chance of that so she takes half your stuff then you have to pay alimony for decades to keep her in the lifestyle she's become accustomed to and then she takes your kids away and you have to pay for the privilege. Then you add the false accusations of abuse women make during divorce. Then you got to add the fact that many women feel its OK to be physically and mentally abusive to men because they know there will be no real world consequences and that the law will treat them automatically like the victim even when they are the perpetrator because soceityand the law treats female perpetrators like children with special needs unable to take responsibility for their shitty actions.

[Anonymous]

Yeah that's pretty much how it works out, but it isn't necessarily a bad thing if you marry her young and you get her best years. Then when she's 35 she cheats with Chad and Tyrone, she leaves and moves in with Simpy Cuckerson right before she gets old and fat. You had her when she was young and hot, now she's his problem and you're free of having a nagging old wife as your future.

Moral of the story is to get into a relationship with her when you're both 21 and fuck her brains out for as long as you can, marry her, have kids, and do all that shit before she cheats and takes off. Then let her go because she ain't getting any hotter.

[MCheetah]

Never heard of this YouTube before, but I agree with the cliff notes, yes. Seems like a decent channel. And she's 5'11.5", too.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/d8qgSn-O3qIhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/4mMlblFxpvg

[KrakenAttackin]

@mcheetah. Yeah, I subscribe to this chick and she spits facts.

[MCheetah]

@KrakenAttackin
I might like the stuff she says, but I can't stand the kind of people she hosts and I don't watch entertainment that would just annoy me with stupid women on there. So I'd watch some of her videos, like what I posted, but I wouldn't subscribe.

[KrakenAttackin]

@mcheetah. I hear you. Her guests are useful to see the genuinely fucked up attitudes women have, but yes, their biblical cluelessness is exhausting.

[NathanDavis]

I really do not base my life nor my life decisions by the experiences of others...

I live and lead my very own life... and I don't really have issues with dating whatsoever

experiences vary and differ for everyone... that's way more accurate than other generalizations that are thrown around all the time, lol

[misogynistic_pig]

Yes, that is precisely why I am in favor of making abortion and birth control pills illegal.

Now that Roe v. Wade has finally been struck down, should the birth control pill be made illegal?

[DaisyM23]

Her channel has actually recently come up on my youtube and I've watched a lot of her videos now, I'm 50/50 on their discussions and opinions tbh because I can see both sides

[Anonymous]

I say this is about 80% spot on.