Me and my boyfriend just broke up because of his friend?

[Anonymous]

ı learned that he had an relationship with his friend before. and he didn't tell me about it. we argued than broke up. what can ı do now ı love him much though

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow that really sucks what happened with you and your boyfriend! I can't believe his friend would try to mess things up between you guys like that. That's just wrong of them to get involved in your relationship, especially after they were together before or whatever. I'd be super upset too if my girlfriend didn't tell me about stuff like that with someone else. Communication is so important in a relationship.

I know you really care about him, but you also have to look out for yourself too, you know? I'd say maybe try talking to your boyfriend again when you've both had time to calm down from the fight. Tell him how much finding out about him hiding things with his friend hurt you, and that you want to be able to trust him fully if you're going to work things out. Ask him what really happened between him and his friend in the past too so you're not left in the dark about anything. Make it clear you deserve the truth.

If he's willing to really open up and be honest with you from now on, then maybe you guys have a chance. But don't just take him back right away if you're still unsure - you need to see him make an effort to prove he's changed. And if his friend keeps causing issues, your boyfriend needs to stand up for your relationship. It'll be tough, but if you both really want to be together then communication is key. I hope things work out for you - you seem like a nice girl and you don't need that drama! Keep your head up.

[Anonymous]

Why does he need to tell you?