Do you feel guilty or worried about your ex if you were the one who left them?

[jack1924]

[DrPepper12]

Yeah. I think i would still have empathy and concern no matter what

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I don't worry about them.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[Anonymous]

I had girl who wanted to date me back in middle school even though we never talked ever that turned into stalking. I told another guy to fuck off and the next day they started dating. It got pretty clear she wanted me to be jealous and I didn't give a single fuck.

Guy I told to fuck off was in and out of jail with a weak pull out game on top of that. So freshman of high-school it ate me live being being so cold and distant.

You'd say "if you didn't do anything nothing is your fault" so I never did anything to anyone and ultimately hurt way more people then I ever intended doing so. It fucking sucks.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. Of course I still care about them. But I can't live thier life for them. I don't end things easily or abruptly. Which means if I ended it, it's because I HAD TO. They will always have my support. But no longer my heart. I have a lady friend that became an alcoholic. I can't end that addiction for her. She has to want to do that.

[Anonymous]

I was always the one being dumped. I had one ex who regretted it and wanted to be friends. I told her that I am not interested, and I wanted nothing to do with her

[jack1924]

Why you didn’t want to be friends with her

[Opinion Owner]

I don't like being mistreated. I didn't want to give her another opportunity.

[jack1924]

If she mistreated you, no, she doesn’t deserve another chance

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly!

[RavVid]

I would especially if they have health problems. It seems a lot of people do. It is not unusual that a former partner ends up as a carer.

[DanicaPhoenix]

If I broke up with them, odds are I had a good reason to. No, I would not waste time worrying about them.

[BootyKiller06]

@DanicaPhoenix I guess it just depends on why you ended it right.

[DanicaPhoenix]

@BootyKiller06 true, every guy I've broken up with has been for a reason the only thing I worry about is them being dumb enough to come back around me.

[BootyKiller06]

mind if I ask you for some advice? follow me if its okay :)

[FunkyMonkee]

Just a tad but, that's only happened once. All the other times, they left me.

[Dou1994]

Recently I felt a bit bad but I have to go for what I want and there are days where I think about it.

[LiamJHayden]

No. If I ended it we were not working out. I do wish all of my exes the best.

[Rangers]

I've always been on the receiving end, so I don't know how I'd react

[NathanDavis]

I would just not abandon them... lol

[jack1924]

Sometimes you need to do so

[NathanDavis]

in that case, that sounds more like freeing oneself... rather than leaving the other for the sake of leaving

[clampfan101]

I imagine at least a little part of me would, wondering if it could have been different. In the end though exactly how much is definitely going to depend on why it happened.

[Sevenpointfive]

the one who left them = no

the ONLY one who left them = maybe

[sawno]

Would depend on why I left.