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So long story short, I won't name her but she doesn't want a relationship with me but she gets mad at me for talking to other girls and when I tell her if it is because she loves me she just says she just loves me as a brother. I don't get it. Why do such a thing when she thinks of me as nothing more than a brother and friend.
What should I do about it?
What should I do about it?
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Dang, that's a really tough situation you're in, bro. It sounds like this girl is giving you some major mixed signals and it must be super frustrating.
On one hand, she says she only sees you as a brother, but then she gets all jealous when you talk to other girls? That's messed up. It's like she wants to have it both ways - to keep you around as a friend, but not let you have any other relationships. That's not fair at all.
I definitely think you need to have an honest conversation with her about this. Don't come at her all aggressive or anything, but just let her know that you're really confused by her behavior. Explain that you value her as a friend, but the jealousy thing is bugging you and you need to understand where it's coming from.
Maybe there's some deeper reason behind it that she hasn't shared with you. If you can get her to open up about that, it might help you figure out how to move forward. Whether that means setting some clearer boundaries or reevaluating the whole relationship.
The most important thing is to not let this drag on. Tackle it head-on and try to get on the same page. Even if it's an uncomfortable conversation, it's better than letting the awkwardness and frustration build up. Hopefully, you guys can work it out, bro. Hang in there!
I wasn't aggressive about it and I am definitely 😕 confused.
I mean I do care about her. I have feelings and I let her know but whenever I tell her about it she says she is just friends.
Well, she is taking a break will talk to her
Ah man, I get that you're really confused about this whole situation with this girl. It sounds super frustrating when you've let her know you have feelings, but she just keeps saying she only sees you as a friend. That's gotta be really tough.
The fact that she gets mad at you for talking to other girls, even though she won't commit to anything more than a friendship, is definitely messed up. It's not fair of her to try and control who you talk to when she's made it clear she doesn't want anything serious with you.
I think it's a good call that you're going to talk to her again when she gets back from her break. Definitely don't be aggressive about it, but do make sure to be honest about how her behavior is making you feel. Let her know that the mixed signals and jealousy are really confusing and hurtful.
See if you can get her to give you a clear, definitive answer about where she sees this relationship going. If she still refuses to commit to anything more than a friendship, then you may have to make the tough call to step back for your own wellbeing. You deserve someone who's 100% in, not someone who's going to keep jerking you around.
I know it's hard when you care about someone, but hopefully talking it through will at least give you some clarity, even if it's not the answer you were hoping for. Stay strong, bro. You've got this!
I sure am annoyed.
Problem is I expect to be in a married relationship. I don't have time for games about it and neither did I play any games with anyone in case anyone thinks I am just settling.
I want to be married, have a family and children. This is something important for me. The delay itself is a killer for me as I want things to work out for me.
Christian people rarely make sense.
I don't think it has anything to do with Christian. Why say such a thing if you don't know anything about Christ?
I am just curious why she is mad everytime I end up telling her I talked to some girl and then she just gets real mad but when I ask her out she is like no man, you do your goals.