Ex friends with benefits stalking re reading old tweets, why?

[Anonymous]

A ex friends with benefits who claims has no feelings for me who dumped me 6 months ago has been stalking my twitter account ever since which is set private and my only follower so I know it’s him.
He re reads old tweets about my feelings for him that are months old few times a week, recently stopped a week ago n has started up again.

Is he regretting it or in denial.

Updates

2 mo

We are still friends

[SueShe]

I am not familiar with any of those social media but how can you know that he is specifically reading old posts? Is there a way to see who is reading specific posts?

As for why he is doing that, both of your options are valid. I personally think he is reminiscing about those times but I personally don' think it is denial. People that regret would tend to try to hold onto what they liked and if he solely reads old posts, then he is likely regretting. If he would be in denial, then he would also read the newer posts and not just the old ones.

[Asker]

I keep tabs on the view counts n he visited my profile from the tweets

[Asker]

He reads my new tweets too few times a day

[Asker]

He viewed and clicked on one of my tweets saying never say never, I count the Engagements numbers and can tell he clicks on it as well as the profile count

[Asker]

He is my only follower n I follow him only, my profile is set private

[Asker]

We had a brief chat about my feelings for him on Saturday night then I caught him re reading old tweets on Sunday night

[SueShe]

Why don't you ask him directly. I still think he is reminiscing, thus probably regretting the old times.

[Asker]

Regretting it. Hmm that would look like I’m spying on him too 😂

[Asker]

I think he’s probably reminiscing with a hint of denial about his feelings

[SueShe]

why don't you ask him directly?

[Asker]

Cause it’s awkward forethought of us spying on each other

[Asker]

It’s awkward cause we both spying on each other lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

It doesn't necessarily have to be feelings, maybe he misses that pussy, or has no replacement for that pussy

[Asker]

Probably

[ChicoFromThe305]

There's only one way to find out tho

[Asker]

Already asked, that’s why I said claims to have no feelings thank u for replying

[ChicoFromThe305]

Fair enough, best of luck anon

[Asker]

But that be awkward to ask him why he’s spying on me

[Asker]

Thank you

[ChicoFromThe305]

Not as awkward as being the spy getting called out lol

But either ways by putting him on the spot it might make him easier to read and another perspective that might sound better to you is that it gives you an excuse to hit him up, which come on I can tell by your curiosity that you wanna 😆

[Asker]

Yeah kind of in love with him 😂

[ChicoFromThe305]

I believe it will hurt more being stuck in confusion and wonder on his intentions then it would to realize his intentions aren't what you wanted, something I've pickup, at least moving on with the certainty in mind that it was the proper choice than to move on wondering if it was the right choice

[ChicoFromThe305]

Let me put that in a way it doesn't sound like gibberish, it will feel better to move on with disappointment than wonder, which hopefully it doesn't come to that

[Asker]

He says he loves me as a friend but his actions says otherwise so I can’t really ask anymore cause I will look like I’m pestering him

[Asker]

Mixed signals is the best way I can explain it. Why is he re reading very old tweets about my feelings for him over n over again yet doesn’t want to be with me.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I wanna ask you something that I think should be taken to consideration, maybe it might help you somehow but if you do have some hopes that he might like you as more than just a friend, knowing him do you have any idea what would stop him from committing to you if he did?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I've realized from other people's experiences that friends with benefits can really complicate things, mostly if feelings start to linger around, I guess it all comes down to this, if he missed the whole thing y'all had, a friendship with sexual benefits with no commitment, would you say that's enough for you?

[Asker]

Age gap for one thing

[Asker]

Yeah that be enough

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then I guess it can't really go wrong here, best of luck missy

[Asker]

Like it’s 20 years gap

[ChicoFromThe305]

That is a pretty big gap but I two consenting adults I exactly that, if both agree to have something more then there's nothing stopping it from becoming a reality, but I get what you mean, it's unlikely mostly if the person has options

[ChicoFromThe305]

But as a friends with benefits I don't see why it wouldn't continue if it's just a friendship with the benefits of sexually pleasing each other

[Asker]

Yeah don’t think he wants to hurt me anymore cause I’m heartbroken

[Asker]

Thank you for being real

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's a possibility too if he's aware of that, and np, best wishes on that tho

[Asker]

Yeah I think he’s in denial lol thank you

[ChicoFromThe305]

💯💯

[Asker]

Definitely if he’s re reading old tweets about him,

[ChicoFromThe305]

Huh?

[Asker]

I mean if he’s re reading about old tweets I made about him, he must be in denial about having feelings. Anyway thanks

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't know, I wouldn't hold on to that as the reasons can be limitless, for your own sake, it seems he already broke your heart once judging by the info that has leaked out already.

[Asker]

True thanks

[Avicenna]

Must be wanting to have sex again

[Anonymous]

He likes you.

[Asker]

Definitely something thanks