What to do when your husband threatens to kill himself if you end the relationship, but you know he will actually do it?

We’ve been together 16 years, 6 months ago I found out he had been talking sexually to men online. This was devastating and broke me, I wanted to end the relationship but he said he would kill himseld if I did. We have 3 children together so I felt obligated to carry on for their sake. It was 6 months from hell following that, as I continued the relationship but my head and heart didn’t want too. Then last week I find a dating app for gay men, and on there was 100s of photos of him having sex with men, mainly in 3/4 sum situations. It was disturbing photos and he wrote a bio of what he liked (cross dressers etc)

this time I wasn’t angry, I didn’t want to upset the kids like last time and tried to keep everything as minimal as possible. I informed him I know what he had been up too and gave him the weekend to find other living arrangements. That deadline is up tomorrow but he’s refusing to leave, I have said if he doesn’t I will have to call the police and he says I will make a huge scene and it’s unfair to did that to the kids, that if he leaves he will 100% kill himself. People say he’s lying and just trying to play my feelings but I know he will do it, he will do it to hurt me and to hurt his kids, becus that will hurt me more. He’s a narcissist for sure, and even through this it’s all about him. He tries hugging and kissing me becus “he needs a hug." I have told him over and over that the rship is done but he point blank dismisses it and says we are together forever and I just need to accept that.
I rang the police for advice the weekend and without violence they can’t make him leave. I don’t want him to kill himself, my children will never get over it and it will be soul destroying for them, but mentally I’m not sure I can have him here with me, pressuring me for sex and touching me, when I don’t want it. He never takes no for an answer and will ask the same question 100 times over until I change my answer to something thay suits him.

What to do when your husband threatens to kill himself if you end the relationship, but you know he will actually do it?
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