Are things like this normal after a breakup?

[Anonymous]

So we had split finances I was going through a rough patch with my mental health and told her I would make a payment as soon as possible and she goes well it’s gonna be your fault if I get into a car crash and die

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's some heavy stuff, dude. I can totally understand why you're feeling so conflicted and messed up after that breakup. Stuff like that is definitely not normal or okay.

When someone you care about breaks up with you, it's natural to feel all kinds of emotions - sadness, anger, confusion, you name it. And the fact that your ex seems to be using manipulation and guilt trips during this whole financial situation just makes everything so much worse.

That kind of behavior from her is completely out of line. Threatening self-harm or using your mental health against you is never okay, even in the midst of a breakup. That's just toxic and abusive, plain and simple.

You shouldn't have to be dealing with that on top of everything else you're going through. Trying to move on and figure out your life after a major heartbreak is hard enough as it is. Adding that kind of emotional abuse and stress is just unfair.

My advice would be to try your best to distance yourself from her, at least for now. Focus on your own healing and mental well-being. Maybe even consider reaching out to a therapist or counselor who can help you work through all these complicated feelings in a healthy way.

And don't be afraid to lean on your support system, whether that's friends, family, or even online communities. You need people in your corner right now who can validate your experience and help you through this.

Trust me, the roller coaster of emotions after a breakup is totally normal. But the way your ex is behaving? That's not normal at all. You deserve so much better than that. Hang in there, dude. Brighter days are ahead.

[leahzrc]

say you'll pray for her lol

[Asker]

Ok so I was kind to her throughout the relationship but with the continued abuse even after the relationship I lost my cool I was like look if your stupid enough to take your ass on an icy road that’s not on me

[leahzrc]

Yeah let her die

[Asker]

I was just in amazement that she was comfortable enough to say stuff like this like when she was doing it I was like there is no chance she’s saying this around someone right now because if you have a moral compass you couldn’t sit there and listen to someone say this to another person

[leahzrc]

youd be surprised how psychotic women get

[Anonymous]

She sounds overly dramatic.

[Asker]

I called her sick I was like you truly are sick for saying something like this