
Relationship Ended…What’s Next?


2 years isn’t that long of a time , just focus on yourself and put yourself back on the market , there are plenty of fish in the sea. A partner that walks away from you , never truly loved you , they just liked the convenience of you , because someone that truly loves you would t walk away period. So do yourself a favor man and move on just like she did. You don’t have to answer to nobody. I know it hurts , trust me I been there especially after a 20 year marriage , she decided she wanted to be single and give up on us. I was devastated and hurt that she didn’t hold our vows seriously. I realized she was a selfish person that only really cared about herself. After a few weeks after she left , I started opening up to dating again and realized I deserve someone that doesn’t walk away from me period
Well firstly enjoy being single, go on solo vacation. Work on your career and financial goals. Analyse what went wrong in previous relationship and work towards making yourself a better person.
Take the time to find yourself again. Explore being single and heal from the breakup. Don't jump into another relationship. Do a lot of self reflection and find out what went wrong so that when you do get into another relationship, you won't go into it with the same problems.
Thanks for the great input.
You're welcome!
Man up and get on with your life. Changes are a part of life, and it is not how you fall down, but rather how quickly you get up again that really counts.
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Two years!!! Thats it? Wow. Try a decade or more. Be glad it got cut short before either of you had life altering regrets and commitments!
Go out and be fun and single. Buy some toys rexonnect with being self sufficient cooking amd shopping for yourself. Go to a new town or better, a new country! Then, when you have built up your confidence, lost your smelly desperation, and are ready to find a person who is more aligned with you and you know it, then think about meeting others. Stau away from stoopid dsting apps. Their scams full of women with too high a sense of worth considering the ratios are about 70:1. You need to rebuild your confidence so go on an international dating app! The odds are usually reversed and the girls are likely more genuine if she isn't a prostitute. And if they are, as soon as they realize your not in-country they'll ghost you so win-win. It might be a year or more for this, but hopefully you'll make better choices by knowi g what works for you and you'll wake upnto the stupid things you likely did to cause her to leave. Ya, its at least 50% your fault. Fix that and don't be boring.
Sad for you. I'd say avoid being negative first. If there are friends you haven't seen much lately start catching up with them. You might not be in the right frame to try to get into a new relationship straight away.
Before you do anything, you have to heal. Don't rush out for a rebound as it will probably fail too. Just a word to the wise.
You're old already, you should make long term decisions and not all relationship is peefect
Take a little time to heal and go find someone.
At 43? Look over seas. Better women. Waaaaayy poorer.
To just move on. I don't know the situation
Start dating.
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