Is it normal for an ex-girlfriend to still want to have sex after a breakup?

[Finchie40]

Some of my ex girlfriend’ still wanted to have sex with me after we broke up , why is that?

[Sal_Monella]

It is not unheard of. Some guys just have the touch. Even if they are an asshole. Years ago, I had a girlfriend who I rather liked. She really liked oral sex. In time, we broke up because I wanted children and she did not. But the breakup was amicable. One eight-year marriage later, she got wind of my divorce. She called me right out of the blue and invited me down to her house for dinner. I did. And she served me a very nice dinner. But it did not take long to realize that she wanted to serve me a second course. I eagerly "ate" it.

[Finchie40]

Yea it’s funny how some girls’ wait until you are single again and they jump right on it , most the time it was my exes girl friends’ that she assumed were her good friends

[Purpleronnie]

Can’t say I’ve not done it , that would be a lie.. at the time , being young , dumb and full of … testosterone 🤣 I think it was a case of she did not want to be an ex and I was the drunk booty call at 2am Now in my relative maturity though , no I’d never do it again.


My mature frame of mind is more , once a woman is an ex , whoever’s decision it was , I’m not using them or being used by them for sex.


Why do they do it? , well I won’t generalize or claim to understand all the nuances of their decision making process but it could just be , they are trying to win you back by reminding you what your missing , just want familiar sex rather than a nasty hookup , or just plain horny and your an easy no guilt target.. I don’t think some woman are that different than some guys in this area.

[sage2021]

I only did that once with a guy I was engaged with. It was very very intense. Like we couldn't get enough of each other.

I had broken up with him and then a month went by and I asked him if he could come over. He showed up about an hour later.

I called him because I missed him and wasn't sure if I had made the right decision to break up.

After that I never heard or saw him again.

I did call his work about 3 months later and the person said "Oh, Don is on his honeymoon in the Caribbean." 😳

[Finchie40]

So you had sex with him again and little did you realize he was getting married?

[sage2021]

Yep! 👍🏼

[RonThirdWheelWeasley]

He didn't waste any time.

[queenofcardio]

They have needs and they're still comfortable with you.

[Finchie40]

Yea some of my exes wanted to continue having sex with me until one of us met someone else. I only did it with the ones that I broke off with on mutual reasons , not the ones that cheated on me.

[NathanDavis]

some people just like sex...

they don't have to like you

[Shrimpenjoyer]

This is whorish behaviour lol

[NathanDavis]

@Shrimpenjoyer fun fact... shrimps can be quite promiscuous as well
so you enjoy that...

[Shrimpenjoyer]

🤣 shrimps are cool when cooked but when it comes to raw stuff I prefer beef 😫

[NathanDavis]

@Shrimpenjoyer I'm not a fan of salmonella

[AgentG111]

Absolutely, comfortable with you and know what the are getting and that you know them and their body.

[TheLovelyWoman]

I still have sex with my exes. Because it didn’t work out that doesn’t we hate each other. We ended things on good terms so I still have sex with them.

[qwerty2469]

I think so. I've obliged. It's how you stay friends. Give the people what they want.

[slatyb]

Because you are really good in bed. Do you want to?

[jazzy34]

They're probably still attracted to you.

[dudeinohio]

Not normal. Should be moving on.

[robocop666]

you satisfied them thats why

[Anonymous]

Yes, it is normal.