He's an emotional leech, get him off me!

[ameliajp]

i can't shake my ex.

he's an ocd liar.

he complains about everything.

he hates his family and whines about friends.

he doesn't want to do anything to better his life but he won't shut up about his problems.

every guy I know, he knows -so I can't even rebound without him snooping around.

he is sucking the life out of me.

he moved in with an ex of his and the whole time living with her, he chewed my ear off complaining to me about how he hates her. just to move out & pretend to cut her out to complain about her more to me. when really, he and her hang out all the time and are BFFs.

why is he doing this to me? what am I to him?

i just don't want him in my life anymore. I can't take it. how do I get out of this downward spiral? I'm losing my mind, everywhere I turn, there he is complaining or lying or crying. he has no motivation, passion or drive towards the future.

he's a giant child with no understanding of himself or what he wants. if he knew at all what he wanted he wouldn't be so effing miserable.

[Darkfairie17]

Stop communicating with him. Block him on Facebook, don't answer his calls/texts/bbm's, whatever else he is using to contact you, ignore it. It's not worth your time. Trust me on this, I had to let some people out of my life that were doing the same things. My one ex is like yours, he always complains yet never does anything about it, and he snoops! Everytime I get a new boyfriend, he has to talk to me. It's really funny, because I could care less. But he always finds a way of finding information. He talks to my friends :/ But cut him out of your life, you will feel so much better once you do! And soon enough he won't even be a thought in your mind :)

Get out once in a while, go to a new town or city nearby to meet guys. Even try online dating, open yourself up to new people. If this guy tries to contact you again, block him. He had his chance and lost it so now he can just suck it up :P No one needs life-sucking people in their life. It takes all the joy out of it and makes you miserable all the time! Start by choosing to enjoy life and fill your social circle with those who you can enjoy their company.

[Silv3r]

im sorry about this. I'm sure you once had feelings for him so having him be annoying and have no passion for life really sucks. I know he's involved in your life. have you tried absolute no contact? including, ignoring his texts/calls, blocking on Facebook, giving short answers if he corners you in person? are you at college? or maybe you could join a new club or start a hobby? then you could find guys he doesn't know. I don't know why he's doing this. maybe in his mind he does care about you. and this is how he's keeping you in his life (twisted. I know). but if you really don't want him in yours, then you don't deserve this. if he's really just plan annoying, there is legal action. not sure if this situation calls for that though.

[Skyler123]

I don't see how people find it so hard to cut ties with someone. Just be a b*tch to them. Tell him you don't want his company that being in his company makes your life miserable. Tell him exactly what you told us. That should get the point across quite clearly.

[rockingpianoman]

"F*** off , leave me alone , get the f*** out of my life or ill file a restraining order for ya "

thats how you get someone out of your life XD

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Tell him off, it works.