I am glad that you know your shortcomings and the mistakes you have done. You certainly hurt her terribly and had no respect for her or ever considered her feelings. there is no point of telling you how wrong you were because you already know.
Honestly, I would not blame her if she didn't take you back or hung up the phone if you try to call her. If you really want her back then you need to do the following:
1- Know what you really want. Dig deep inside and ask yourself "Do I really want her or do I just miss the good times I had with her so why not get back with her?" If the answer is the former then go to step 2. If it's the latter, then don't bother because you will hurt her even more. She doesn't deserve all that pain.
2- Promise yourself to stop treating her like crap. Once you approch her and try to talk, be a gentleman. Respect her and care for her feelings.
3- Have a face to face conversation with her. Tell her exactly what you said in your question. Be very honest and show remorse for what you did. If she didn't accept meeting you, then write down a sincere letter and send it to her. Again be honest and show remorse.
I hope you learn from your mistakes and treat her better if you get back together. I believes she loves you. Don't take her for granted because it is rare to find people who love us and care for us in this world. Good luck :)
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i cant' believe this girl is till trying to contact you, if I were her I'd leave with what ever pride I've got left. very rude and classless of you to treat another human like that. you surely are right to be ashamed of you yourself. I wouldn want to be with a man like your self,you've destroyed your character. I had a guy did the exact same thing to me, and when he was ready to reconcile and apologize I was no longer attracted to the person he turned out to be, a complete witch. I think heartless people are capable of treating other like that, sorry I have no compassion for you.
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Well I'm sorry I've had this done to me so I don't have much sympathy for you. I think regardless of whether you want to get back with her or not - you should pull yourself up and face her and apologize. its the least you owe her. tell her straight you are ashamed and you know you handled it all bad. and be straight as to whether you still want to be with her or not. you owe her this. leaving her wait 5 months, I've had this done to me and its horrible. and very selfish of you. failing this I'm sorry but I have no advice or sympathy for you.
Tell her straightaway what you really feel inside. A good woman would be open enough with issues like that. Don't treat her a like an option that freakin hurts if I was your girl. I hate to say this but it's not manly for you to treat her like that. I feel sorry for her but you can still make up for things that have happened. Tell her the status of your feelings towards her and that you want to do the rightful things etc.
dont talk to her then
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