My ex asked me for money??? Advice < Advice < Advice !!!!!!!!!!!!

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Okay here's the thing, if its not one problem with my ex, then its another problem. Since the beginning of our relationship, I always been iffy on giving him, not just him but everyone else that I have dated money. My ex knows that, and it kind of bugs him. He asked me for money early on in our relationship, and I didn't like that, only because it was a month since we been dating. Maybe I am over exaggerating but I just don't want to get taken for a ride. Lately its been up and down with us, like seriously. I question his motives or his feelings towards me. I care about him a lot, and I know he cares about me, but I don't know how deep his feelings are for me. So he came over last night and spent the night with me. the night went great, until he had to leave and he asked me for $30.00 for a Sim card he needs for his phone. Were not even together! But besides that, I wouldn't mind giving him the money if he showed me that he really cares or did little things for me such as writing me a poem, buying me a rose, just little stuff just to show me that he loves me and isn't in it for one thing, but he doesn't do any of that. I told him when will he have the money back to me? he said he doesn't know and that he has other stuff to pay off. WOW! I have other stuff I have to pay to, such as bills, and I told my mom that he asked me for money and she got upset and told me leave him alone. I know I need to. I feel like he just might be taking advantage of me, but I also don't want to be exaggerating over something that might not be soo big. I asked him how will he get he money, and he said he will try other sources. Hhmm? That makes me wonder if he's going to try to get it from another female. Idk, Do you guys think my instincts are right or do you think I am over exaggerating?
My ex asked me for money??? Advice < Advice < Advice !!!!!!!!!!!!
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