I have had in the same situation and I would say for you not to do it...
I don't know what happens to these losers but besides they don't give our effort and dedication in return they don't understand what it means...for him you are just a person who is interesting at certain point and he is showing by actions that its nothing more than this..
dont confuse yourself its pretty clear...
I have dated a loser like that and used to give money to him (I know you must do it with heart like I did) but they just don't know the meaning of wealthy feelings .
I could say that after that I promised myself don't date losers!
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Hell no! LOL never give a guy money. I'm sorry but I know too many guys who brag about getting money from different women. Especially if you are questioning his motives. It would be different if it was your live-in boyfriend but since it's not he needs to get his stuff together. He is trying to play you. Believe me if it really came down to it he would find an honest way of getting money instead of asking you to. Let him get it from another female, he probably will anyway.
Always trust your instincts, they are usually right. I can't tell you he is using you for money, but I can't tell you he isn't either. It is better to take the same route here and not give him the money. God only knows if you will get it back and if you keep giving he is only going to keep coming back for more.
What? Blow him off. What's the point. You aren't even with this guy and he's asking you for money? And not even like he needs a lot of money, but like he needs $30? Screw him. Tell him to find another girl to write him checks.
I didn't read your story, sorry, too long and I don't have time. But if you have EX and MONEY in the same statement, you've already answered your own question. Stop giving him money! Even if he's your boyfriend don't give him money. Stop dating losers. If you let a guy take advantage of you, he will. Who cares if he can't buy something. Who cares if he can't pay his bills. That's HIS problem, not yours. Tell him to get off his butt and get a job. If he has a job, stop spending more then he's making. It's not rocket science. Get some guts and tell him no!
didnt read ur story but already know to make the answer no!
casue he's ur ex and a guy and is looking for revenge for some reason
and is nt going to stop asking if you keep giving him money
so say no!
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Please blank this abuser off,he does not love you one bit,but sees you as his bank.believe me he will keep asking you for money every time.You are too precious and he does not deserve you.You are better than him and he knows that very well.
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