- My ex girlfriend always asks me for money but she's in a rebound relationship but I help her out anyway but she say her new girlfriend works and so do she. She say her girlfriend helps her out to but I'm always the one she asks for money. But she now ask me can I send her some money so she can buy some new clothes and other stuff because she's going out of town with her family and rebound girlfriend. What does this mean and what should I do?
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My ex girlfriend always asks me for money but she's in a rebound relationship but I help her out anyway but she say her new girlfriend works and so do she. She say her girlfriend helps her out to but I'm always the one she asks for money. But she now ask me can I send her some money so she can buy some new clothes and other stuff because she's going out of town with her family and rebound girlfriend. What does this mean and what should I do? My ex girlfriend always asks me for money but she's in a rebound relationship but I help her out anyway but she say her new girlfriend works and so do she. She say her girlfriend helps her out to but I'm always the one she asks for money. But she now ask me can I send her some money so she can buy some new clothes and other stuff because she's going out of town with her family and rebound girlfriend. What does this mean and what should I do?
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Why are you giving her money? She's an ex girlfriend. Leave that shit in the past. Like why in the world would you give an ex money? Obviously something went wrong if she is your ex. That means that you are lending money to someone you don't trust, fucked up or whatever. Honestly this is all on you for not saying no. Just wow.
@CReese08 - you can start by growing a spine.
WHY are you giving an EX money? You have NO obligation to give her money. She is NOT family. She is NOT even a friend anymore per se. And yet you continue to support what is a leech taking advantage of your pushover nature.
Get some freaking self respect
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asking for money so she can go see her girlfriends familylol wtf. STOP LETTING PEOPLE USE YOU!
i wouldn't give one cent to a friend (sorry, just the way it is, you'll never see that money again), let alone an ex. especially with how you described it here. STOP!
The best money for spending is someone else’s, right? Seems to me your ex is just using you, and is continuing to use you because you allow them to. I’d stop giving them money and ho low or no contact.
You need to block and stop interacting with your ex. She's your ex for a reason.
That sounds a bit rude to me. I wouldn't be giving her any money.
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