My ex is asking me for money?

[Anonymous]

My ex wants me to pay her $20 because of her kids (no we aren’t living together) .. and I asked if I could see her today and she told me today wasn’t a good day for it.

I have always given her money for her and her kids when we were together for 3 months. Last time we seen each other I even gave her weed and paid all the Ubers and food because she’s broke.
I’ve always been that best friend or partner for her when she really needed someone. But now that I want to see her again after a few days or more, she told me she wasn’t feeling it today to go anywhere but wants money.

What do I do? Give her money anyway? She doesn’t work

[D_Bone_Steak]

I wasn't going to answer any questions today... but I think you should be very cautious about giving a woman money or even cohabitation if you've done that before.

"Family law courts base decisions on what is in the best interest of the child, and this is usually to continue to have financial support from someone even if he is not actually the father." - From a quick google search.

Also, look up cases of people that end up having to pay alimony to a woman they're not or have not even been interested in. I read one case where a dude let her stay at his place for a couple of weeks and she ended up taking his house.

This is why I personally will never get a woman addicted to me because of money. You might have just thought you were being nice, but now look... Doesn't even want to meet up, but wants your fucking money?

Now, on the other hand, you could handle this like a Chad and tell her you'll give her $20 for a blowjob. Just saying.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Never mind my joke there at the end (unless you want to be like Chad), but do take it seriously. A chick can get the court involved, force you to have to pay her legal expenses, you'll be paying for your own legal, and then the family court will want to take way more than $20. Unless you have enough money to actually fight a case. All she has to do is prove she depends on your support. No bullshit.

I think it's one of the main reasons so many men are going MGTOW and only using women for sex.

[Asker]

Those aren’t my kids

[D_Bone_Steak]

Thank you for MHO and I would like an update on the situation. This chick really sounds like she needs to get her shit together. She's dragging kids around already, splits with you and... think about it... what kind of girl starts hitting up a ex boyfriend for money and for kids that isn't that ex boyfriend's? She has some shit she should sort out before even thinking about getting a boyfriend. With that said...

I think she's looking for men to solve her problems. If you take her on you're also taking all her problems and placing it in your lap... I really hope you've chosen to avoid that shit. She's making the bad decisions that got her to where she's at in life right now.

[MikeTheBartender]

It's $20? My answer is who cares... You can give it to be nice, but be grateful she's your ex. I had the same issues dating women terrible w money... It's a set up for disaster.

[Anonymous]

are these kids yours too? i doubt it. you have absolutely no reason to have to give money for HER kids. cut this broke women off. your wallet will thank you. this is her responsibility now, not yours.

[EmmaMary]

Are these children yours? If not, then no way do you keep on giving her money... Simples.

[Asker]

No they aren’t my kids

[EmmaMary]

Well in that case I've already answered your question.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Guy13]

Cut her lose and let her go forever !!

[WaterIsland]

Absolutely not. It’s that simple. No, no, and no. Nothing good can come from that. Set the boundary and enforce it.

[legalboxers]

no and no