Is it normal to be upset over the end of a "flirtationship?"

[thatweegirl]

I recently experienced the end of a "flirtationship" and was totally heartbroken. All I could think of was the boy in question. Is this normal or should it be easy to get over someone that was never officially a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Hi there. I feel for you because I am going through the same thing right now. I got accustomed to talking and texting almost every day and miss it a lot. I feel like it's a huge letdown and I feel very blah and keep looking for a text even though I know it was best to end it for both of us. Just try to keep busy as much as you can doing positive things and try to tell yourself "don't go there!" when he pops into your mind and you start dwelling on it. If nothing else, take comfort in the fact that you're not alone in what you're feeling right now. It is one of those inevitable disappointments/experiences and we encounter in life. 💔. Hope this helps.

[Lett0385]

It's normal, because we women even though we said we don't get attached with boys we do, and we always hope that a relationship will develop out of that firtationship. But at this point all you need to do is distract yourself. go out, read, exercise whatever you needs to do to get pass this

[Anonymous]

Of course that is normal. After alll the flirting it is natural to think that eventually something would eventuate out of it, and I guess unfortunately sometimes it doesn't work out that way. What happened?

[Anonymous]

Oh no, this is really wrong. Almost as wrong as the Dracula complex girl who likes biting people: link

[BirdofParadise]

You may not have been in a relationship with him, but you still had feelings for him. There is nothing wrong with being upset its over.

[Bombshell13]

Totally normal, happens to me all the time.